Is my crush gay too?
Hey Dr. Randy, how do I know if my loved one is gay too? (Ali, 18 years)
I'm 18 years old and I'm not outed as gay. So far, so good. My problem is that I don't know if the guy I like so much is like me. Admittedly, we don't know each other that well yet. And the fact that I know him from training (we started at the same company at the same time) doesn't make it any easier.
I don't feel like inviting him on a date, getting turned down and then - in the worst case - being laughed at.
Thanks for the help, Ali
Dear Ali,
yes, life could be so easy if you could look other people IN the head. Unfortunately, however, this is not possible. This means that sooner or later you will probably have to take the initiative in some way - unless your crush goes on a flirting spree of its own accord.
In the first step, it can help to find out a little more about him....
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