Good reasons for condoms

5 reasons why condoms are so important "I just don't like it!", "I don't feel anything!", "Can't we leave that one out?"... Surely every man has heard these or similar phrases. Rubber muffs are everywhere... Especially at gay cruising locations. At a time when sexual freedom and the desire for passion in the most diverse places play a major role for many, it is more important than ever not to compromise here. The following reasons can perhaps help you to be a little more quick-witted in discussions on the subject in the future... And possibly also to convince yourself a little more. Because: The rubbers of "yesterday" are no longer the rubbers of "today". That means: Especially with regard to material and sensitivity, a lot has changed. Reason number 1: Safety first Of course: This is the absolute main argument! Rubbers can help protect against infectious diseases.
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Can safe sex also be erotic?

This is how safe sex can also be extremely sexy Discussions about safer sex are more topical than ever these days. Opinions on this topic are often hardened, as many are unfortunately still of the opinion that it is "absolutely okay" to forego the use of a rubber for the sake of pleasure. The reasons given when it comes to advocating unprotected intercourse vary in this regard. Some advocates of the "No rubber!" faction find condoms annoying and disturbing, and still others simply find it appealing to have sex without a condom because it somehow has the appeal of the forbidden. Within the community, sex without a condom is referred to as "bareback sex". Every now and then, there are even sex parties for this purpose. A dangerous "pleasure" that can have consequences. The following applies: safer sex does not have to reduce pleasure. On the contrary! There are, for example, various ways to make the condom sexy over...
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What you should know about gay chat

There is a lot going on in modern gay chat Nowadays, many gays who want to meet someone - be it for a permanent relationship or for a one-night stand - turn to the Internet. No wonder! Here you can have wonderful contacts of (almost) all kinds. The "offer" is versatile. And who looks around in the right chat rooms, often quickly finds a "partner in crime". Here you can flirt in a protected environment. Chats often turn into the first real meetings more or less quickly, and it's not uncommon for the whole thing to lead to a happy ending. So that your next gay chat adventure is as successful as possible, you should consider some points. After all, who wants to waste time when they can actually find "the right one" quite easily instead? Why do men use gay chat? On the Internet there are different gay chats, which are aimed at different target groups. The best s...
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5 reasons for more sex

With these 5 reasons you wish you had more sex! Whether you're in a relationship or single, sex is rightfully considered one of the "best things" in the world. For many people, the pleasurable union of two (or more) bodies is proof that they are attractive and desired. But: Sex can be so much more than sexual intercourse! In fact, making love offers many significant benefits that can make everyday life easier and, among other things, do good for the psyche. More sex often means being more relaxed and happier. In addition, depending on stamina, length and intensity, intercourse can be a substitute for working out. More than "just" chasing orgasm.... Some people have no problem going a long time without it, others can't enjoy it enough: sex. After orgasm, many feel relaxed and a little better right away. This phenomenon stems from the fact that sex is also an enormous au...
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Intimate piercings are high in trend

Piercings are a trend that started especially in the 1990s and never really stopped. Especially the field of intimate piercings is continuously developing. But why is this type of jewelry actually still so popular in 2021? What advantages do piercings offer? And why do many men find rings and plugs so attractive? The following reasons show that it is sometimes worthwhile to swim along with trends and stick to them. Reason No. 1: Intimate piercings often come unexpectedly When thinking about intimate piercings, many people have a heavily tattooed, leather-clad man in mind. However, quite a few people have already experienced that the reality is usually completely different. Many men are simply not believed - for example, because of their job or their clothes - that they have decorated their private parts in this way. The "Wow!" effect leaves here mostly ...
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STDs

Which STDs are widespread among homosexuals? Even though not only homosexuals suffer from venereal diseases, there are a few diseases that are more prevalent within the scene. The tricky thing is that those affected often only notice comparatively late that they are suffering from an STD. First signs are often swept under the famous carpet. Sometimes out of fear of having to go to the doctor. However, it is usually much less complicated to treat an STD in its early stages. On the other hand, permanent damage is often imminent when a disease is already comparatively far advanced. The following list shows which complaints are also widespread within the gay scene. Actually not a classic STD: AIDS When you think of STDs and homosexuals, you often inevitably think of AIDS. Int...
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How to protect yourself from STDs?

For many people, STDs are often among the problems that "mostly only the others" have to deal with anyway. Yet the risk of becoming infected in the course of one's life is high. Especially when partners are changed more often and appropriate protection with condoms is neglected, there are many indications that a visit to the doctor will be necessary at some point. Fortunately, however, there is the possibility of reducing one's own risk of infection with hepatitis, chlamydia and co. If you are attentive, you will not only protect yourself, but you can also help to prevent the spread of these diseases. In short, protection against STDs should be a matter of course for everyone, even if many of the symptoms are not fatal but "only" unpleasant. But how exactly can STDs actually be prevented? The following tips will help you to be a little safer in bed....
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The basis for enjoying sex is your health

Sexual health is about much more than "just" protecting yourself from AIDS with condoms. Want to know what sexually transmitted diseases are out there and how you can best protect yourself from them? Dr. Randy is here to help! Whether you've just come out or you've been living as a happy gay man for a long time, there are always questions that need to be answered, especially when it comes to sexual health. However, this is also a topic that is handled with "kid gloves" even by many comparatively open gays. Many gay men are unfortunately ashamed to approach their doctor directly with regard to questions about genital warts, HIV and co. Sometimes diseases are carried off out of false shame. This does not have to be! If you would like to find out anonymously in the first step which doctor is your right contact person and/ or which...
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