Can safe sex also be erotic?

So safe sex can also be extremely sexy

The discussions around safer sex are nowadays more topical than ever. Opinions on this topic are often hardened, as many unfortunately still believe that it is "absolutely fine" to forego the use of a rubber for the sake of pleasure.

The reasons given for advocating unprotected intercourse vary. Some advocates of the "no condoms!" faction find condoms annoying and disturbing, and others simply find it appealing to have sex without a condom because it somehow has the appeal of the forbidden. Within the community, sex without a condom is referred to as "bareback sex". Every now and then, there are even sex parties for this purpose. A dangerous "pleasure" that can have consequences.

It's true: safe sex does not have to reduce pleasure. On the contrary! For example, there are various ways to put on the condom sexy. The pleasure can even be increased. You just have to know how to do it. Some tips can help to provide a little more eroticism here.

Helpful tips to make safe sex more stimulating

There is nothing wrong with a lavish sex life - as long as everyone agrees. However, great importance should be attached to safe sex when changing sexual partners. After all, the erotic adventures should be remembered exclusively positively, without having to fear serious consequences. Again and again it is mentioned that it is perceived as disturbing if the condom is to be slipped over in the heat of lust.

However, this short interruption in lovemaking can be made creative and erotic. The following tips can help to make safer sex more exciting. If you want, you can also practice some of these tips in advance so that nervousness does not get the better of you in an "emergency".

Tip No. 1: Put the condom on with your mouth

If you want to make sure that a condom is really used, it is best to put it on yourself with your partner. This can be done in many erotic ways.

For example, the condom can be pulled over the partner's penis with the mouth.
During a passionate blowjob, your own hands are free to carefully open the package and prepare everything. Then the condom is taken into the mouth and placed during the blowjob. (The correct fit should then be checked again).

Tip No. 2: The right timing

When the actual sex is about to start, the desire has reached its peak. But it is precisely at this moment that a brief reminder of the condom can be a real mood killer.

So how about planning a little in advance? Even during foreplay, the condom can be put on "quite incidentally". While the partner's body is explored with the mouth, the hands can prepare the condom and slip it on. Here it then waits "in peace" for its use.

Attention! However, too much time should not pass between putting the condom on and having sex. A swelling of the erection can lead to the fact that the condom no longer fits 100%. Here too: Please check again before sex whether everything is in order!

Tip No. 3: Orgasm without sex

When people think of safe sex, they often think of wearing a rubber. But: safe sex can also happen in a completely different way! Men can also experience passionate sex without having anal sex. Hot petting and oral sex can also provide a climax.

Important: If there is an open wound in the mouth, a condom should also be used during oral sex. This can reduce the risk of transmitting any diseases.

 

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