Love & tenderness

4 reasons that speak for more romance in everyday life Who ever said romance in everyday life has had its day? There are many couples who love to celebrate each other over and over again. There is no question of "kitschy" here. How "perfect romance" is defined, however, is of course always dependent on personal taste. There are quite a few couples who have become accustomed to each other over time and know exactly what the other expects (and what not). In any case, the following four reasons are ideal proof that romance is far from obsolete even in the 21st century.

Reason #1: Many men love to be conquered

Not every man wants to conquer. Time and again it turns out that many guys appreciate it when HE fights for him. Why not? No one should be taken for granted. And even in relationships that have already lasted over a...

5 tips: How to get more pep back into your relationship A well-known saying goes "Old love doesn't rust!" - yet many couples know that a partnership can definitely "fall asleep" if no one takes care of it. The most important thing: If you notice that you are mainly unhappy in your relationship, you should definitely talk about this with your loved one. Otherwise, negative feelings are as good as pre-programmed. Openness and honesty - without hurting the other person, of course - are the be-all and end-all. And who knows? Maybe the other person wants exactly the same thing? The following tips can certainly be seen as a suggestion for the appropriate topics of conversation.

Tip #1: Stay open

Even in "old relationships" things can (and should) change now and then. However, this only succeeds if both are open. No matter whether it's about a new hobby together or a new position in the company....

Sensible savings tips for couples that are good for the household budget At a time when many are on the lookout for ways to save money, it can be well worth taking a closer look. But who actually said that saving money had to be boring? Many couples are learning to move closer together again by saving together. Rising energy costs and general uncertainties should not stress you out more than necessary. Those who feel they are not helpless can breathe a little easier. The following tips can help save the household budget a little.

Tip No. 1: Cook yourself more often

A romantic dinner at your favorite restaurant is fun. Nevertheless, it is not excluded that this is a burden on the household budget. A far more affordable solution: cook for yourself! A candlelight dinner together within your own four walls not only offers the advantage that the bedroom is within easy reach, but also that the...

Watching porn in the relationship? A hotly debated topic Sex is simply part of a good relationship. But what if the partner also indulges in a little fun alone and watches porn? For many men this is an absolute no-go! Others feel it's "totally fine" if their boyfriend or husband watches others having sex from time to time to get in the mood. There are many different reasons why a man (or woman for that matter) decides to watch porn. But: enjoying porn movies doesn't have to be a reason to break up with your partner or start a big fight. There are some tips that can help to deal with this hotly debated topic in a relaxed way. This not only saves stress in the relationship, but can even improve it. By the way, many also wonder how does gay porn behave in reality. My partner watches porn: what to do? First of all, should ...

How to prevent the pain during anal sex Anal sex can be very erotic, but also quite a painful affair. Especially when there is a lack of proper preparation and one wants to have too much too fast. Especially tricky: those who associate their first anal sex experiences with pain may find it difficult to indulge in this practice again - at least passively. And that's exactly why it's so important that ideally everything goes smoothly. Of course, depending on the size of the "best piece", it can never be guaranteed that anal sex will be 100 percent pain-free. However, there are some tips that can help improve the initial situation for everyone involved. As in many other areas, the "relaxation" factor is also crucial here. Tips for pleasant anal intercourse For the sake of completeness, it should be mentioned once again at this point: The following tips are no guarantee that there will be no pain whatsoever during...

Gay Porns and the Reality Check Many gay men love gay porn. Some watch them alone, others with their partner. However, one problem that is pointed out again and again is that although the depictions look quite horny, they often don't have too much in common with reality. For example, those who insist that sex must be exactly as it is portrayed in the film can quickly be disappointed and perhaps also place too high expectations on themselves and their partner. The following five points show how much reality and gay porn diverge. Point No. 1: Everyone comes... Always There are simply days when everything doesn't go smoothly. Sex is definitely no exception. Sometimes "he" just doesn't want to get hard, sometimes it's all over way too fast, and sometimes the climax is too long in coming. In short, this is one of the main differences between gay porn and "real life" sex.

That's what men really think about when they blow! The one who is spoiled with a blowjob can usually - literally - sit back. And meanwhile, probably only a few guys will have ever wondered what is going through each other's minds right now. Nevertheless, it is interesting to deal with this consideration. Granted: Every man is individual and of course there are also guys who, while they are pleasing their counterpart with a blowjob, really think about "nothing at all". However, there is definitely also the sort of man who gets partially lost in thought carousels. But what exactly goes "the blowjob" then actually through the head? By the way, the sorting of the following sections has nothing to do with the frequency of the respective trains of thought. Thought process No. 1: Am I good enough? Every man should know the problem: The blowjob has been going on for half an hour now and somehow absol...

After the hot phase of online dating, many people wonder whether it might be worthwhile to get to know each other in person. The question that should really be asked in this context is: Why not? Even if it sounds strange, but: more than a bad date it can actually not become in most cases and even if not everything should run "perfectly", valuable experiences can still be collected in the context of "optimization-worthy" meetings. There are many different reasons why it's worth thinking about dating at some point. After all, at some point - assuming mutual sympathy - it's time to move from the virtual to the "real world," isn't it? What details speak for a date? Especially in the world of online dating, it is possible to meet a wide variety of characters. Not everyone gets along with each other right away, sometimes they don't...

The most important rules on a sex date "It's just sex!" - Maybe so. Nevertheless, it is important - in the interest of all - to observe some principles. Otherwise, it may happen that not only the ego and self-esteem suffer, but also health. However, the good news is, of course, that a sex date doesn't have to be stressful. Quite the contrary! If you feel like not getting tied down and enjoying your single life, you can of course do so. However, the following general conditions help to enjoy sex even better... Even if they may sound a little "stuffy" at first. Tip No. 1: Be honest Just about everyone knows this kind of man. He tells the blue from heaven, was "never in love so much in life"... And actually just wants sex. However, he only thinks the latter. But why actually? It saves all involved a lot of trouble and nerves, if from the outset with open cards is played, In the h...