How painless anal sex works

How to prevent the pain during anal sex Anal sex can be very erotic, but also quite a painful affair. Especially when there is a lack of proper preparation and one wants to have too much too fast. Especially tricky: those who associate their first anal sex experiences with pain may find it difficult to indulge in this practice again - at least passively. And that's exactly why it's so important that ideally everything goes smoothly. Of course, depending on the size of the "best piece", it can never be guaranteed that anal sex will be 100 percent pain-free. However, there are some tips that can help improve the initial situation for everyone involved. As in many other areas, the "relaxation" factor is also crucial here. Tips for pleasant anal intercourse For the sake of completeness, it should be mentioned once again at this point: The following tips are no guarantee that there will be no pain whatsoever during...
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Gay Porns VS Reality

Gay Porns and the Reality Check Many gay men love gay porn. Some watch them alone, others with their partner. However, one problem that is pointed out again and again is that although the depictions look quite horny, they often don't have too much in common with reality. For example, those who insist that sex must be exactly as it is portrayed in the film can quickly be disappointed and perhaps also place too high expectations on themselves and their partner. The following five points show how much reality and gay porn diverge. Point No. 1: Everyone comes... Always There are simply days when everything doesn't go smoothly. Sex is definitely no exception. Sometimes "he" just doesn't want to get hard, sometimes it's all over way too fast, and sometimes the climax is too long in coming. In short, this is one of the main differences between gay porn and "real life" sex.
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What do men think when blowing?

That's what men really think about when they blow! The one who is spoiled with a blowjob can usually - literally - sit back. And meanwhile, probably only a few guys will have ever wondered what is going through each other's minds right now. Nevertheless, it is interesting to deal with this consideration. Granted: Every man is individual and of course there are also guys who, while they are pleasing their counterpart with a blowjob, really think about "nothing at all". However, there is definitely also the sort of man who gets partially lost in thought carousels. But what exactly goes "the blowjob" then actually through the head? By the way, the sorting of the following sections has nothing to do with the frequency of the respective trains of thought. Thought process No. 1: Am I good enough? Every man should know the problem: The blowjob has been going on for half an hour now and somehow absol...
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When is it worth dating?

After the hot phase of online dating, many people wonder whether it might be worthwhile to get to know each other in person. The question that should really be asked in this context is: Why not? Even if it sounds strange, but: more than a bad date it can actually not become in most cases and even if not everything should run "perfectly", valuable experiences can still be collected in the context of "optimization-worthy" meetings. There are many different reasons why it's worth thinking about dating at some point. After all, at some point - assuming mutual sympathy - it's time to move from the virtual to the "real world," isn't it? What details speak for a date? Especially in the world of online dating, it is possible to meet a wide variety of characters. Not everyone gets along with each other right away, sometimes they don't...
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Are there any rules on a sex date?

The most important rules on a sex date "It's just sex!" - Maybe so. Nevertheless, it is important - in the interest of all - to observe some principles. Otherwise, it may happen that not only the ego and self-esteem suffer, but also health. However, the good news is, of course, that a sex date doesn't have to be stressful. Quite the contrary! If you feel like not getting tied down and enjoying your single life, you can of course do so. However, the following general conditions help to enjoy sex even better... Even if they may sound a little "stuffy" at first. Tip No. 1: Be honest Just about everyone knows this kind of man. He tells the blue from heaven, was "never in love so much in life"... And actually just wants sex. However, he only thinks the latter. But why actually? It saves all involved a lot of trouble and nerves, if from the outset with open cards is played, In the h...
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5 signs of a relationship that has grown apart

When the butterflies no longer fly around in the stomach and everyday life has taken hold, many couples ask themselves whether they have grown apart. At the latest when you feel "somehow funny" or unhappy, it is time to be alert. However, there are other signs than a funny feeling that can indicate that a couple has drifted apart. These five points can help determine if it's time to reflect on an existing relationship. Of course, however, it is not a substitute for a personal conversation or couples counseling! If you are looking for food for thought, this is the right place to start. Everything else must be clarified within the relationship. Sign No. 1: Now and then it is difficult to bear the presence of the other person At the beginning of the relationship, many can hardly wait to see each other again. Once the longing to spend time with the other person has faded, the...
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The most dangerous dating mistakes

Many men know the problem: they date and date and simply do not find the right counterpart when dating. In many cases, however, this can be explained not by the famous coincidence, but by classic dating mistakes. Many processes happen here on an unconscious level, but ensure that the counterpart does not feel comfortable (or at least has no interest in a second date). However, if you take a little time to look at your own flirting behavior, you will quickly realize that some mistakes can be avoided. Of course, there is still no fundamental guarantee. But: the chances of a passionate flirt (or more) can at least be increased if your own behavior is questioned. The following mistakes can be the reason why he does not get in touch after date no. 1. Mistake No. 1: extensive conversations about the ex No question: surely everyone wants to practice a little...
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Dating during and after Corona

First of all, the rules that should be followed when dating naturally always depend on the current situation in your own state. However, it is also clear that singles who want to get to know someone have more options than is often assumed. Who has no desire on purely digital dates, can often ensure with a little circumspection and the suitable ideas that a meeting can go in many cases corona-conformal over the stage. Tip No. 1: Meeting in the fresh air According to current findings, the risk of infection is lower outdoors than indoors. So how about simply going for a walk with your future crush? This may be a traditional activity, but it is by no means a boring one. "Quite incidentally" can often be prevented when walking conversation breaks, because the situation is generally often more relaxed than, for example, in a restaurant. Tip no. 2:...
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A perfect spat day at home

Enjoy a spa day at home?! Here's how! Wellness and relaxation are essential for a good work-life balance. To pamper yourself here, it doesn't always have to be a spa center or a getaway! Relaxation and wellness can also be enjoyed at home. It doesn't take many accessories - and together with your partner, it's often a little more fun. Because of the home atmosphere, it is also often a little easier to leave everyday life behind. But what should be considered when planning a perfect (and perhaps erotic?) spa day? The following tips will help and - depending on personal taste - can of course also be refined a little. Tip No. 1: Switch off all electronic devices Meanwhile, a world without the Internet, smartphones and computers is unthinkable for many. Some people live by the motto: always be available and act directly. Constantly hanging in the n...
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