Love & tenderness

5 Tips for a Happy Relationship - Despite Corona The Corona pandemic points in a special way to problems that have been present within society for a long time. Among other things, many couples are currently noticing that the initial feeling of "lockdown romance" is fading. Where about a year ago it was incredibly sexy to enjoy the "us against the world" feeling in the bubble at home, now discussions are often the order of the day. However, to ensure that "cabin fever" doesn't stand a chance, it's important to intervene in good time and possibly even save your love. The following tips can help support the partnership during this difficult time.

Tip No. 1: Create free space

Anyone who sits on top of each other 24 hours a day - perhaps thanks to the Corona home office - needs a break every now and then (and even in the happiest relationship). That's why it's all the more important, even w...

Over a long period of time, queers have had to repeatedly defend themselves against the prejudice that long relationships within the scene are comparatively rare. However, a look at the statistics shows that this is exactly not true. Because: of course there are also partnerships within the community that last for years, sometimes even for the rest of their lives. In this context, it is interesting to note that many happy relationships function according to a similar pattern. With the following tips, a "... And they lived happily ever after!" is often easier. Tip No. 1: Accept the partner in the relationship as he is. This is one of the most important basic rules of all: acceptance. A relationship in which one part keeps trying to change the other part is usually doomed to failure. Of course, you don't always have to agree. However, it is defin...

Sex is somehow part of every functioning relationship, isn't it? It is not always possible to make such standardized statements. Because: some men need more, some men need less togetherness of this kind. However, it is also certain that sex can be good for the relationship on different levels. At the latest when one partner "allows" the other to have less sex than he or she would like, problems often arise. But how much sex is actually "normal"? Standardized rules are out! "If you want to be happy, you should sleep with your husband at least once a week!" Such and similar sayings are considered outdated. Because: especially in the context of sex should never be standardized. Instead, it is much more important to be honest with yourself and honest with your partner. For example, if you don't feel like having sex one day, you shouldn't feel forced to do so. At the same time, it is also especially wi...

Especially in the early days of a relationship, everything often seems rosy. The partner is perceived as "the best thing that could happen to me" and a breakup seems extremely unrealistic. At some point, however, it becomes apparent that it is not always possible to "just" let a relationship run its course. Because: every partnership wants (and should) be nurtured. Similar to a flower, there is otherwise the danger that it will wilt. Excitingly, however, it is by far not as costly as often thought to nurture a young (or already aging) love. On the contrary! Sometimes it's even fun to get to know each other in new ways. Especially important: time together Giving away one's own lifetime is (justifiably) perceived by many people as something very special. This kind of "quality time" also plays an important role in a relationship. Whether it's sex, talking to each other or a cozy...

Not only heterosexual men sometimes react annoyed when this sentence hits them. Who wants to talk about a relationship that works "on the whole"? But: sooner or later, no one can avoid relationship analysis. All the better! After all, researchers have found out, among other things, that it is important not to let the thread of discussion break off, even at the risk of arguments and discussions. Of course, it is particularly important here to talk "properly" to each other. In fact, no one wants to be confronted with a wall of accusations. Talking to each other should therefore always be characterized by positive emotions - or at least contain them. The clash of different characters Everyday life in relationships shows: some people love to review the day, to talk about current events and/or to let the other person know...

While some homosexual couples have been happily together for decades, some relationships seem doomed from the start. But what is the actual reason for this? How can the most promising possible basis for a partnership be laid? Many scientists are of the opinion that especially men who are very similar to each other and have the same hobbies, for example, are a good match. Common interests stand for a continuous exchange Those who can no longer talk to each other and have no ambition to counteract this fact usually wear their relationship to the grave slowly but surely. Conversely, if both men are enthusiastic about the same topics, the conversation will rarely run out of steam. Whether it's a common sport, a passion for movies or something similar: as long as there is a common basis for communication, the chances of many happy hours together are good...

Is there a better feeling than being in love? However, many of us can't really enjoy exactly that. They are afraid of not pleasing the other person, doing something wrong or not being able to prove themselves in bed. Often these worries are completely unfounded. Often it lacks only a little self-confidence and the feeling that ultimately everything will be fine. Dr. Randy is your contact if you are looking for someone who can help you with questions about love and tenderness. One thing is certain: it's okay to be unsure here. Hello? After all, you only want the best for your sweetheart! It is often enough to look at the situation from the outside and gain a little distance. Fear is never a good advisor. Especially when it comes to questions about love, it can be a hindrance. Dr. Randy helps you Dr. Randy not only has a wide range of experience to draw on....