Relationship
Especially in the early days of a relationship, everything often seems rosy. The partner is perceived as "the best thing that could happen to me" and a breakup seems extremely unrealistic.

At some point, however, it becomes apparent that it is not always possible to "just" let a relationship run its course. Because: every partnership wants (and should) be nurtured. Similar to a flower, otherwise there is a danger that it will wilt.

Excitingly, however, it is by far not as costly as often thought to nurture a young (or already aging) love. On the contrary! Sometimes it's even fun to get to know each other again and again in new ways.

Especially important: time together

Giving away one's own time of life is (justifiably) perceived by many people as something very special. This kind of "quality time" also plays an important role in a relationship. Whether it's sex, talking to each other, or a cozy dinner: the opportunities to get close to each other again and again in a familiar atmosphere are many and varied.

Many couples celebrate this kind of togetherness by planning "their" evenings well in advance and not letting anything disturb them.

Stress as a particular danger for relationships

Everyone gets stressed now and then. However, it is precisely when resentment towards colleagues or anger towards parents is vented on the partner that it becomes dangerous. Such energy guzzlers develop over time as poison for love. To counteract the stress here, it is important to prevent and schedule time off.

Whether these are then taken alone or together with the partner is irrelevant in the first step and depends on very personal taste. While some love to take time out for sports, others enjoy actually spending every free minute with the man in their lives. Often it is also the famous "mediocrity" that can provide a welcome change here.

Important: both must cooperate

Happy relationships are not one-way streets! Therefore, ideally, both parties should strive to be involved and understand each other. If you are always busy fighting for your love, but neglected in return, you will quickly become frustrated.

Therefore, it is even more important to keep reminding yourself that the "Great Love" can be incredibly fulfilling, but it is not free.

However, mutual attention, empathy and the desirable "we-feeling" are worth far more than money here. Real love cannot be bought. It is the result of joint work. Every day anew.

Also of interest: "Honey, let's talk!"

15 responses to "How to keep the love in a relationship".

  1. In a relationship it is so there it must fit to each other as well as the honesty to each other and if it fits in a relationship to each other and trust each other and you can not be interfered by anyone or come in between and you share the worries and needs with each other remains a relationship always fresh alive but also the evenings want to be well designed where you often find a solution by exchanging caresses together without that you do the partner with quarrels and wars it can all be done in the quiet with his partner a solution

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  2. I see that completely correctly. One must also be able to respond to the partner and also listen to or understand his sides.
    It is also, as someone has already said, like a plant that you have to take care of.

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  3. I can fully confirm what has been said so far. My relationships have developed over many years and have gone through ups and downs. I always had younger partners and my last relationship lasted 24 years and is unfortunately due to adverse circumstances (difficult and time-consuming time in the self-employment gastronomy) in the breaks. Nevertheless, I do not want to delete this time from my life, because we still deal with each other in friendship.

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  4. I can only agree with Geralf. Of course, everyone needs space to do something alone with others. So that one does not go sometime on the "sack". One has then also what to tell what one has done so and sits afterwards not bored next to each other and is silent ...,
    Of course, I mean that it is always nice to be together with your partner and to do something together with him. But every now and then a time out for a few hours revives any relationship and makes it clear again and again, how much you miss the opposite then thereby

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  5. Relationship requires communication, trust and tolerance always.

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  6. That's essentially how I see it, too. A relationship is like a young plant. It must be constantly nurtured and cared for. This requires a lot of patience and tolerance from both partners.

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  7. Am just chatting with a man and it develops in the right direction and the post stands some what you can use

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  8. Thank you for the comments, which I can only fully confirm and agree with them.
    Sincerely W.Ott

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