It doesn't work without sex, does it?

Sex is somehow part of every functioning relationship, isn't it? It is not always possible to make such standardized statements. Because: some men need more, some men need less togetherness of this kind.

However, it is also clear that sex can be good for the relationship on different levels. At the latest when one partner "allows" the other to have less sex than he or she would like, problems often arise. But how much sex is actually "normal"?

Standardized rules are out!

"If you want to be happy, you should sleep with your husband at least once a week!" Such and similar sayings are considered outdated. Because: especially in connection with sex should never be standardized.

Instead, it is much more important to be honest with yourself and honest with your partner. For example, if you don't feel like having sex one day, you shouldn't feel forced to do so. At the same time, it is also particularly important to talk about your own desires. Otherwise, sex could become monotonous over time - sometimes out of sheer convenience.

Of course, it is also possible that new desires develop over time. Here, the couples who have managed to build up a special relationship of trust with each other over time have an advantage. Those who can talk "about everything" can also talk about sex and the topics that go with it.

Turn off lust killer

This is a familiar theme: one person feels like it, the other does not. If such "Honey, I've got a headache!" scenarios occur more often, this can definitely cause thick air. Stress is often a classic desire killer. If you can't switch off in the evening, it's hard to let go.

That's why it's all the more important to question one's own everyday habits in the event of an increasingly weakened libido, in order to possibly get to the bottom of the problem. If you know what causes your lack of desire, you can often find ways to combat it. Sometimes sexual disinterest in the partner can also be caused by diseases. Of course, this also needs to be checked out.

Sex - one factor among many

Despite the fact that sex is the famous "salt in the soup", it is also certain that no relationship can be saved by regular coitus alone. This means that for a happy relationship, other details such as willingness to communicate, mutual respect and so on must also be present.

Accordingly, those who are relaxed towards their partner, feel comfortable and at the same time do not lose themselves, can often benefit from a fulfilling sex life.

How to keep the love

15 responses to "It doesn't work without sex, does it?"

  1. I miss the sex
    With a man I would like to live out the sex again.
    I also have sex with my girlfriend, but I think of a man....

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  2. Why are we here? Man feels alone and is looking for a suitable counterpart! Stupidly, the eye-catcher is first of all the sexuality or certain fetishes, which must serve as a criterion! Although actually the need for physical closeness and togetherness is the main goal? Sure, the desire for sex is the drive, because doing it yourself is pretty monotonous in the long run. Who has a fire that seems warming to me?(rhk-musik/winterstuerme), we want to see ourselves in each other's eyes, touch and warmth, so that we don't get cold! Let us feel the closeness wherever it takes us! Stay healthy, your Pofan...

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  3. Only a few get along without sex or lead vlt ne relationship without sex, but there are these exceptions.
    Basically, I agree with the thesis that a relationship without sex can not be led (well or not at all). That's why sex is certainly part of it. If you can get off with your partner, devote yourself to each other, confide in each other and know each other, this togetherness in intimacy is probably the most beautiful experience in the world.
    From my experience of life and love, I would like to make the following comments:
    1. sex is multifaceted and does not begin with coitus and union. The foreplay, the afterplay - both are at least as important as signs of love. After all, sexual intercourse itself does not last as long as is often said and often bragged 😉 The most important thing is probably to be able to talk to his partner about EVERYTHING about it too - about his needs, his ideas... After all, there are certain preferences, love signs for the partner, the knowledge not only of the general erogenous zones, but also the personal favorite places and positions that "appeal" to the partner and lead to the 7 heaven of love and horniness.
    2. if you know each other better and better + are very responsive to each other, sex can actually be the most beautiful minor matter in the world and become even more. Who completely goes into the partner without disregarding his own needs, can make the other happy. The following applies: If 2 want to make each other happy (not only, but also during sex), will also really happy.
    3. who takes the freedom to try out and to let apply "everything can, nothing must", can really devote himself totally and remains open for experiments. Some things you try vlt only once, but proven several times and yet all this is then no mere routine ...

    4, Of course, there are also very different topics and fetishes that partners often do not talk about or address. I can only regret that. Because therein lies precisely the potential, gg false routine openly and loved as loving to care for each other. To me, an "open partnership" is nonsense in the sense of the word, because a partnership should always be incomparable, undivided and unique. Or? To each his own, but I do not understand the reasoning of this lived form of love. But after a lot of exchange, also in the circle of friends, exactly THE PROBLEM shows up: Who can't talk intimately about all mutual needs, doesn't lead a close partnership or relationship. Many needs remain outside, are satisfied differently. This can be e.g. BDSM or other fetishes, where one could be open out of love for the partner for all possible "game types" in loving devotion and the desire to make THE PARTNER happy and to become happy himself.

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  4. For me sex belongs to it . You want to live out his love and feel the closeness of the partner

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  5. Only those who research can achieve their goals or those of their partner. Variety is good for everyone, even if you are afraid of it at first. You have to be clear about what you want and what you don't want. Everything else usually comes by itself.

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  6. I think sex always belongs to a good partnership. But you should be greativ and try a lot.

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  7. I am basically not interested in sex. At the moment I am alone anyway.

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    1. You are one of the few Michael. I find it very good that you think so. RESPECT!!!

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    2. Evening Michael, if you miss the sex. Get in touch with me.
      I miss the horny sex with a man
      Am bi Active and passive 55Years/70/1.70 Slim
      Am from Main Kinzig-Kreis near Hanau Hesse
      Whatsapp writing 01771755361

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