I have erection problems

Hello Dr. Randy, I no longer get a high, what can I do? (Frank, 46 years) My problem is in the title. I have a lot of problems getting an erection. I have been in a relationship for about six months and I am happy. My boyfriend also turns me on and I would really call him my "dream man". However, I still can't get a hard-on. Of course, the whole thing is also putting a strain on our relationship. I wonder what I can do. Do I really have to go to the doctor? Or will the whole thing go away on its own? Thanks for the help, greetings Frank Dear Frank, you are definitely not alone! There are many younger men who suffer from erection problems. Of course, that doesn't really help you in your personal situation. Maybe you won't be thrilled that I'm actually advising you to see a doctor. Especially when erection problems are not only occasional, but also...
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Kellogg's Pride edition makes breakfast colorful

Kellogg's presents Special Edition for Pride Month It won't be long now before Pride Month is celebrated once again. Kellogg's has decided to celebrate the occasion in a special way. Customers in the USA can secure a limited edition of the well-known breakfast cereal. Part of the proceeds will be donated. Kellogg's already confirmed that this promotion is not valid worldwide. Accordingly, the "Special Edition" is only available in certain nations. But who knows? After all, Pride Month is celebrated every year. Maybe the German fans of the brand and all those who can identify with the LGBTQ scene will also be able to enjoy the campaign in the coming years? Kellogg's and Pride Month - a connection with tradition With the campaign around the colorful snacks Kellogg's supports the LGBTQ scene not for the first time. Already in 2019, they decided s...
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My penis is too small!

Hello Dr. Randy, HELP! My penis is too small (Luis, 21 years old). Honestly, it takes an extreme amount of effort for me to write to you at 21 years old, but I have something burning on my mind. I am currently single and would really like to cruise. The problem is: I am ashamed of my small penis. Not only is my penis not big, it's small. In fact, I'd almost say it's tiny. I'm afraid that I would embarrass myself with it while cruising. Do you know if it's "superficial" at the locations in question. I don't want to get a trauma there. It's enough for me to know that someday I'll have another boyfriend to undress in front of. I hope you have some tips for me, greetings Luis Dear Luis, first of all it should be said that most cruising locations are really tolerant and open. I have never heard of a man being laughed at for having a small penis. Dennoc...
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These pop stars are queer

These German Schlager stars are and were already queer Schlager and Schlager music has long since ceased to be aimed only at the older generation. Nowadays, the music genre is experiencing an absolute revival and also increasingly appeals to the young audience. Even the topic of "being queer" or homosexuality is no longer taboo here. The so often cited "ideal world" has not been harmed by the fact that LGBTQ plays an important role here more than ever. Many pop stars openly admit their homosexuality and live it out. Their fans celebrate them for it and are as good as always behind their stars. But this was not always the case. At that time, pop stars of the 60s and 70s were under enormous pressure. Many were afraid to come out. The respect for rejection and an early career end was too great. No wonder... After all, homosexuality was still often lived in secret back then. It simply didn't fit in with the ...
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Are intimate piercings still in?

Hello Dr. Randy, I wanted to ask if intimate piercings are still in or dangerous? (Pete, 47 years) As you can see from my headline, I am currently considering an intimate piercing. I don't know yet which variant I will choose exactly. All I know is that my boyfriend is anything but enthusiastic. He keeps saying that this type of jewelry is now completely out and that the risk of the whole thing getting infected at some point is extremely high. Is that really the case? Especially about the objection with the inflammation I worry of course. Plus: I'm extremely upset that he wants to restrict me like this at the age of 47. I mean: Hello? I have not said that I will get a tattoo or the like! Best thanks already, Pete Dear Pete, Intimate jewelry is still in - of course not only within the gay scene. However, it is also true that with every piercing - no matter if a...
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Spring is rolled

The new year is already a few months old and now, at the latest in spring 2021, it's time to start thinking about the summer body. However, even die-hard fitness fans know the problem: they have absolutely no desire for the "Leg Day". But how about simply reinventing it? There are far more options than the leg press when it comes to getting legs and butt in shape. One trend that will once again play an important role in spring 2021: skating! Whether it's on inline skates, 90s roller skates or a skateboard, hobbies like these definitely have the potential to set new personal fitness benchmarks. Trend No. 1: inline skating Towards the end of the 90s, classic roller skates were slowly replaced by inline skates. This developed into a trend that continues to this day. For some time (and since the gyms, due to the Corona pandemic had to close) operate more and more ...
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My long distance relationship burdens me

Hello Dr. Randy, I am extremely burdened by my long-distance relationship (Tommy, 39 years). I am 39, met a guy about half a year ago. I am from Frankfurt, he is from Cologne. When we want to visit each other, we need about 2.5 hours on the highway (without traffic jams). I know: many who live in a long-distance relationship are laughing now. But: the distance is too great for us - also because of our jobs - to commute back and forth here every day. However, I increasingly notice that the situation no longer makes me happy. In addition, I would like to be able to spontaneously drop in on my boyfriend in the evening without having to worry about having to get up at half past four the next morning to be at the office on time. I miss him a lot. In addition, he is a very sociable person and has already uninvited me the one or other weekend because he wanted to meet up with his buddies. Best thanks for your help, in love, ....
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Désirée Nick - Homophobia is not an opinion

Désirée Nick makes a plea for the LGBTQ community The scandal surrounding "Celebrities under palm trees" and Prince Markus von Anhalt is now a few days ago, but is still preoccupying the media and celebrity world, as is Désirée Nick. The "sharpest tongue in Germany", Désirée Nick, has now also spoken out. Her message is clear: "Homophobia is not an opinion, but an offense." In the course of an Instagram video lasting several minutes, however, she doesn't leave a good hair on the other "Celebrities under Palms" participants either. After all, she says, their silence was indirect approval. But how does she actually settle the score exactly? The following sections summarize the main statements. Désirée Nick denounces lack of freedom of expression "Promis unter Palmen" is not the first show that Désirée Nick has commented on in the media. Rarely, however, have all the participants really come off as badly as they did this time. No matter whether the "Currywurstman...
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He is into BDSM, I am not

Hello Dr. Randy, my partner is into BDSM but I am not at all (Achim, 47 years) My name is Achim and I am 47 years old. You can read my problem above: My boyfriend has started to read more and more about BDSM in the last weeks. The problem: I can not really do anything with it. At the beginning I honestly didn't really think about his interest in whips and co. either. As the saying goes. I thought it was a phase. However, that's exactly what it obviously isn't. Again and again he talks about how he would like to try the different practices with me. But I don't want to. At the same time, I don't want to lose him. What can we do? All the best and thank you, Achim Dear Achim delicate topic! Especially because you have to honestly admit that there are no compromises here. Or is there? The answer to this question depends a bit on your attitude. ...
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