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The fear of coming out

I have a big fear of coming out (Philip 21 years) Hello Dr. Randy, I'm Philip and I'm 21 years old. Thinking back, I've actually known for a few years that I have no interest in women. Yes, I am gay and have even had some experiences with men in the past. I know that this is absolutely "okay" and that I will certainly be happy with a loving partner at some point. However, I am extremely afraid to talk about my gayness with those around me. Especially the thought of my parents' reaction worries me. My father is very conservative and - I think - my mother wants almost nothing more than to become a grandmother someday. What should I do? I sometimes feel like it's tearing me apart inside when I'm approached about not having a girlfriend yet, Love, Philip Dear Philip, thank you very much for your mail. First of all fr...

Anal irrigation important!?

How important is anal irrigation before sex? (Wolf, 51years) Hello Dr. Randy, I am Wolf and 51 years old. My question is: How important is anal lavage before sex? What risks can this pose to me? Kind regards Wolf Dear Wolf, thank you very much for your question! Indeed, this is a consideration that occupies many homosexuals. Basically, you can clean or "rinse" your bowels with an anal douche - as the name actually says. Many men find sex more pleasurable after a flush, as they run less risk of coming into contact with feces, residue, and the like. Some feel that this is an extreme turn-off. (It must be said, however, that the feces are normally located in the upper part of the intestine and are therefore usually difficult to reach for the penis anyway - except shortly before going to the toilet). However, sex after anal douching is definitely more hygienic than without. Gera...

STDs

Which STDs are widespread among homosexuals? Even though not only homosexuals suffer from venereal diseases, there are a few diseases that are more prevalent within the scene. The tricky thing is that those affected often only notice comparatively late that they are suffering from an STD. First signs are often swept under the famous carpet. Sometimes out of fear of having to go to the doctor. However, it is usually much less complicated to treat an STD in its early stages. On the other hand, permanent damage is often imminent when a disease is already comparatively far advanced. The following list shows which complaints are also widespread within the gay scene. Actually not a classic STD: AIDS When you think of STDs and homosexuals, you often inevitably think of AIDS. Int...

How to protect yourself from STDs?

For many people, STDs are often among the problems that "mostly only the others" have to deal with anyway. Yet the risk of becoming infected in the course of one's life is high. Especially when partners are changed more often and appropriate protection with condoms is neglected, there are many indications that a visit to the doctor will be necessary at some point. Fortunately, however, there is the possibility of reducing one's own risk of infection with hepatitis, chlamydia and co. If you are attentive, you will not only protect yourself, but you can also help to prevent the spread of these diseases. In short, protection against STDs should be a matter of course for everyone, even if many of the symptoms are not fatal but "only" unpleasant. But how exactly can STDs actually be prevented? The following tips will help you to be a little safer in bed....

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It doesn't work without sex, does it?

Sex is somehow part of every functioning relationship, isn't it? It is not always possible to make such standardized statements. Because: some men need more, some men need less togetherness of this kind. However, it is also certain that sex can be good for the relationship on different levels. At the latest when one partner "allows" the other to have less sex than he or she would like, problems often arise. But how much sex is actually "normal"? Standardized rules are out! "If you want to be happy, you should sleep with your husband at least once a week!" Such and similar sayings are considered outdated. Because: especially in the context of sex should never be standardized. Instead, it is much more important to be honest with yourself and honest with your partner. For example, if you don't feel like having sex one day, you shouldn't feel forced to do so. At the same time, it is also especially wi...

How to keep the love in a relationship

Especially in the early days of a relationship, everything often seems rosy. The partner is perceived as "the best thing that could happen to me" and a breakup seems extremely unrealistic. At some point, however, it becomes apparent that it is not always possible to "just" let a relationship run its course. Because: every partnership wants (and should) be nurtured. Similar to a flower, there is otherwise the danger that it will wilt. Excitingly, however, it is by far not as costly as often thought to nurture a young (or already aging) love. On the contrary! Sometimes it's even fun to get to know each other in new ways. Especially important: time together Giving away one's own lifetime is (justifiably) perceived by many people as something very special. This kind of "quality time" also plays an important role in a relationship. Whether it's sex, talking to each other or a cozy...

"Honey, let's talk!" - Communication in everyday relationships

Not only heterosexual men sometimes react annoyed when this sentence hits them. Who wants to talk about a relationship that works "on the whole"? But: sooner or later, no one can avoid relationship analysis. All the better! After all, researchers have found out, among other things, that it is important not to let the thread of discussion break off, even at the risk of arguments and discussions. Of course, it is particularly important here to talk "properly" to each other. In fact, no one wants to be confronted with a wall of accusations. Talking to each other should therefore always be characterized by positive emotions - or at least contain them. The clash of different characters Everyday life in relationships shows: some people love to review the day, to talk about current events and/or to let the other person know...

Who fits together

While some homosexual couples have been happily together for decades, some relationships seem doomed from the start. But what is the actual reason for this? How can the most promising possible basis for a partnership be laid? Many scientists are of the opinion that especially men who are very similar to each other and have the same hobbies, for example, are a good match. Common interests stand for a continuous exchange Those who can no longer talk to each other and have no ambition to counteract this fact usually wear their relationship to the grave slowly but surely. Conversely, if both men are enthusiastic about the same topics, the conversation will rarely run out of steam. Whether it's a common sport, a passion for movies or something similar: as long as there is a common basis for communication, the chances of many happy hours together are good...

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