Intimate piercings are high in trend

Piercings are a trend that started especially in the 1990s and never really stopped. Especially the field of intimate piercings is continuously developing. But why is this type of jewelry actually still so popular in 2021? What advantages do piercings offer? And why do many men find rings and plugs so attractive? The following reasons show that it is sometimes worthwhile to swim along with trends and stick to them. Reason No. 1: Intimate piercings often come unexpectedly When thinking about intimate piercings, many people have a heavily tattooed, leather-clad man in mind. However, quite a few people have already experienced that the reality is usually completely different. Many men are simply not believed - for example, because of their job or their clothes - that they have decorated their private parts in this way. The "Wow!" effect leaves here mostly ...
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Pain after sex

Hello Dr. Randy, as soon as I have had sex, I suffer from pain (Ferdi, 46 years). It is probably an increased level of suffering that has caused me to turn to you today. For a few weeks now, I have noticed that I am skeptical about having sex with my boyfriend. Not because I don't feel like it, but because I know from the start that I'm going to be in pain again. I haven't been to the doctor about it yet, but I'm afraid that sooner or later I won't be able to avoid it. I've also never had a prostate exam in my mid-40s - simply because it makes me uncomfortable. Is there any way I can find out for myself what the problem is? I haven't talked to my boyfriend about it yet. I think he would be upset anyway if he knew I had put my problem on the back burner. LG, your Ferdi Dear Ferdi, unfortunately I have to tell you that you are definitely not acting on your own...
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On the 60th birthday of Dirk Bach

The news of Dirk Bach's death left people partially frozen in 2012. After all, the lively artist was considered an icon. He seemed to be made for showbiz. Funny, likeable and empathetic, he became known to an ever larger TV audience. In 2021, he would actually celebrate his 60th birthday. An occasion to look back once again at the special stations of a colorful but far too short life. Dirk Bach - a special artist with an incredibly high likeability factor Dirk Bach was neither "just" a presenter, nor "just" an actor. Rather, he was a special total package that did not have to fear comparison with others in show business. He was born in 1961 and grew up in Cologne. Even then, it was very important to his parents that their son had contact with the arts. Visits to the theater were part of the daily routine for little Bach from an early age. At some point he was drawn to the "boards that mean the world". He played in the...
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Is my crush gay too?

Hey Dr. Randy, how do I know if my loved one is gay too? (Ali, 18 years) I'm 18 years old and I'm not outed as gay. So far, so good. My problem is that I don't know if the guy I like so much is like me. Admittedly, we don't know each other that well yet. And the fact that I know him from training (we started at the same company at the same time) doesn't make it any easier. I don't feel like inviting him on a date, getting turned down and then - in the worst case - being laughed at. Thanks for the help, Ali Dear Ali, yes, life could be so easy if you could look other people IN the head. Unfortunately, however, this is not possible. This means that sooner or later you will probably have to take the initiative in some way - unless your crush goes on a flirting spree of its own accord. In the first step, it can help to find out a little more about him....
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Innsbruck sets an example with rainbow crosswalks

Public statements on rainbow crosswalks that address LGBTQ issues are more important than ever in a time when hate, homophobia, and intolerance still play a major role. Many members of the LGBTQ community appreciate when cities (or businesses) make a statement to that effect. What for some people is merely a compilation of colors represents for them a kind of attitude towards life. Because: the mere fact that many people are still bothered by a rainbow print on products of well-known brands shows that there is still a long way to go here. Among others, Innsbruck is now one of the cities that have decided to give the rainbow a special place in the cityscape. The rainbow crosswalk is finally here! The story around the rainbow crosswalk in Innsbruck started already in summer last year. At that time, the Green Party submitted a motion to this effect....
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Our sex is really boring

Hi Dr. Randy, I find our sex so boring (Paddy, age 24). My boyfriend and I have been together for about three years. Slowly but surely I have the impression that with us but in bed the air is out. When I look at gay porn and listen to the stories of my buddies (also straight guys), I get a little envious. They tell me about sex in "forbidden places", about cruising and "horny orgasms". I'm already happy when we change the position once. I do not dare to talk to my boyfriend, because he once hinted that his ex-relationship broke up because of exactly such a discussion. Now the question is simply in the room "what should I do"? Thanks for your understanding Greetings, Paddy Dear Paddy, I think it is very empathetic of you to take into account your partner's past and not to open the door. On the other hand, I'm sure we agree that this is not the way to...
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Fashion trends for early summer

The days are getting longer, but the pants are not always shorter. Because: this early summer, the fashion world focuses on a simple elegance, which, however, may well be "interrupted" by striking colors and highlights. But what is currently and in the coming weeks actually trendy? Which must-have items should not be missing when it comes to updating the closet? The good news is that men's early summer fashion this year is more suitable for everyday use than ever. Whether it's for the office or for leisure, these garments can be worn just about anywhere. Trend No. 1: earthy colors Who ever said that brown, beige and the like have to be boring? The early summer fashion shows that even comparatively plain colors can become real eye-catchers. Another advantage here is that the said earthy colors can be super combined with each other, among other things. No matter whether pants and shirt or jac...
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My partner is bisexual

Hello Dr. Randy, I can't cope with the fact that my partner is bisexual (John, 24 years old). I have been with my boyfriend for about three months. He is about my age and slowly but surely you just tell each other a lot about your past. Recently he "confessed" to me that he has already had two relationships with women. He also says that he finds some women from our environment attractive. I'm sure he thinks nothing of it, but I could go nuts! I always deal with the thought that because of his bisexuality he has - at least theoretically - twice as many possibilities to cheat on me. I am generally rather pessimistic about such issues and I can already see that he will eventually leave me for a woman. To protect myself from my gloomy thoughts, I have even considered leaving him. Please help me. Kind regards John Dear John, indeed trade...
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Olivia Jones publishes biography

The time has come, Olivia Jones finally publishes her biography. About the private life of the probably most famous German drag queen is so far rather little known. Now Olivia Jones has published her biography. The title? "Ungeschminkt." Not only fans of the icon should be interested in the book. By the way, like so many other artistic works, it was written in lockdown. Nevertheless, it is not a spontaneous project. Rather, Jones had been thinking about his own biography for quite some time. So now the time has come. What does "Unvarnished" actually mean? When a drag queen calls her book "Ungeschminkt," the title can be interpreted in various ways. Above all, it indicates that the reader can expect many stories that he certainly would not have expected. At the same time, it is likely to express once again that real life cannot always be colorful and joyful. After all, even Olivi...
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