Planet Randy Advent Calendar

The Planet Randy Advent Calendar - Join in and discover many sexy surprises! You want to sweeten the Advent days a little? You don't want to have a normal Advent calendar? Then just take a look at the Planet Randy Advent calendar! Here you will find a different highlight every day, which will surely increase your joy for Christmas even more. From 01 to 24 December - door contents for every taste In our Planet Randy Advent calendar, a different surprise awaits you every day, from December 01 to December 24, 2020! Among other things, we give away free Randys, free news and even free gifts. Why? Because we want to thank you for using our platform! What do you have to do in order to be "gifted" by us in this way? Just log in every day and see what we have in store for you! This way you can make sure you don't miss out on any of our gifts. ...
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I cheated him!

I cheated on him - what should I do? (Mike, 25 years) Dear Dr. Randy, somehow it seems strange to me that I of all people have to write this mail. After all, I was always the one who advocated monogamous relationships among my friends. When my buddies told me about cruising, I almost reacted angrily. Now I've actually cheated on my longtime boyfriend myself. I don't know if I can bring myself to tell him. Soberly, the one night stand was actually "just" sex. I am neither in love nor do I want to see the other man again. Inside, it's eating me up. I'm afraid my boyfriend will leave me. And honestly, I wouldn't know if I could forgive HIM for such a misstep either. What should I do? Confess or rather keep quiet? Your Mike Dear Mike, I'm sure you're hoping that I can offer you the ultimate solution. Maybe you expect a pre...
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The fear of coming out

I have a big fear of coming out (Philip 21 years) Hello Dr. Randy, I'm Philip and I'm 21 years old. Thinking back, I've actually known for a few years that I have no interest in women. Yes, I am gay and have even had some experiences with men in the past. I know that this is absolutely "okay" and that I will certainly be happy with a loving partner at some point. However, I am extremely afraid to talk about my gayness with those around me. Especially the thought of my parents' reaction worries me. My father is very conservative and - I think - my mother wants almost nothing more than to become a grandmother someday. What should I do? I sometimes feel like it's tearing me apart inside when I'm approached about not having a girlfriend yet, Love, Philip Dear Philip, thank you very much for your mail. First of all fr...
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Anal irrigation important!?

How important is anal irrigation before sex? (Wolf, 51years) Hello Dr. Randy, I am Wolf and 51 years old. My question is: How important is anal lavage before sex? What risks can this pose to me? Kind regards Wolf Dear Wolf, thank you very much for your question! Indeed, this is a consideration that occupies many homosexuals. Basically, you can clean or "rinse" your bowels with an anal douche - as the name actually says. Many men find sex more pleasurable after a flush, as they run less risk of coming into contact with feces, residue, and the like. Some feel that this is an extreme turn-off. (It must be said, however, that the feces are normally located in the upper part of the intestine and are therefore usually difficult to reach for the penis anyway - except shortly before going to the toilet). However, sex after anal douching is definitely more hygienic than without. Gera...
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STDs

Which STDs are widespread among homosexuals? Even though not only homosexuals suffer from venereal diseases, there are a few diseases that are more prevalent within the scene. The tricky thing is that those affected often only notice comparatively late that they are suffering from an STD. First signs are often swept under the famous carpet. Sometimes out of fear of having to go to the doctor. However, it is usually much less complicated to treat an STD in its early stages. On the other hand, permanent damage is often imminent when a disease is already comparatively far advanced. The following list shows which complaints are also widespread within the gay scene. Actually not a classic STD: AIDS When you think of STDs and homosexuals, you often inevitably think of AIDS. Int...
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How to protect yourself from STDs?

For many people, STDs are often among the problems that "mostly only the others" have to deal with anyway. Yet the risk of becoming infected in the course of one's life is high. Especially when partners are changed more often and appropriate protection with condoms is neglected, there are many indications that a visit to the doctor will be necessary at some point. Fortunately, however, there is the possibility of reducing one's own risk of infection with hepatitis, chlamydia and co. If you are attentive, you will not only protect yourself, but you can also help to prevent the spread of these diseases. In short, protection against STDs should be a matter of course for everyone, even if many of the symptoms are not fatal but "only" unpleasant. But how exactly can STDs actually be prevented? The following tips will help you to be a little safer in bed....
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Lockdown Special

We don't want our users to be bored during the lockdown. That's why we knock out different coupons for you every day. That means every day a new coupon code! According to the motto, Stay Home, Stay Safe, Have Fun. So we provide the erotic spice with us and with you in your own home. Date, write each other to continue seducing your Prince Charming on Planet-Randy. The man who makes your pants burst should not have to wait for you. With the Daily Vouchers you will receive Randy's, the internal Planet-Randy currency, which will help you keep in touch with your friends. Or are you just looking for new hot chats, with a Sexy Twink? Are you looking for a bear? Then use your time and search your community of Planet-Randy. You know how it works. As you know, it is very important for us to offer you a hot but also valuable added value with our platform. W...
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It doesn't work without sex, does it?

Sex is somehow part of every functioning relationship, isn't it? It is not always possible to make such standardized statements. Because: some men need more, some men need less togetherness of this kind. However, it is also certain that sex can be good for the relationship on different levels. At the latest when one partner "allows" the other to have less sex than he or she would like, problems often arise. But how much sex is actually "normal"? Standardized rules are out! "If you want to be happy, you should sleep with your husband at least once a week!" Such and similar sayings are considered outdated. Because: especially in the context of sex should never be standardized. Instead, it is much more important to be honest with yourself and honest with your partner. For example, if you don't feel like having sex one day, you shouldn't feel forced to do so. At the same time, it is also especially wi...
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How to keep the love in a relationship

Especially in the early days of a relationship, everything often seems rosy. The partner is perceived as "the best thing that could happen to me" and a breakup seems extremely unrealistic. At some point, however, it becomes apparent that it is not always possible to "just" let a relationship run its course. Because: every partnership wants (and should) be nurtured. Similar to a flower, there is otherwise the danger that it will wilt. Excitingly, however, it is by far not as costly as often thought to nurture a young (or already aging) love. On the contrary! Sometimes it's even fun to get to know each other in new ways. Especially important: time together Giving away one's own lifetime is (justifiably) perceived by many people as something very special. This kind of "quality time" also plays an important role in a relationship. Whether it's sex, talking to each other or a cozy...
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