Can I visit a gay cinema alone? (Tim, 22 years)

Hello Dr. Randy,

Unfortunately, I have to admit that I am currently a little annoyed by my circle of friends. Again and again they tell me how cool it would be to visit a gay cinema. Many of my buddies make a real happening out of it, so I feel strange that I've never been there.

I have not really admitted that I have no experience in this. I have always held back in the conversations. But I would also have a strange feeling to join my clique. Can I actually visit a gay cinema alone?

Love greetings,
your Tim

Visit gay cinema?

Dear Tim,

you are right. There really are a lot of gay men who go to gay movie the aters on a regular basis. Often, it's not just about the movies or the cruising, but rather the mix of "everything".

Sex or gay cinemas have developed significantly over time - at least most of them. But - to answer your question - of course you can get an idea of the situation in most gay cinemas on your own. Moreover, you can be sure that you will not be the only single visitor. I am convinced that - depending on the location and depending on when you show up - many single visitors are looking for a little variety.

However, between the lines of your mail I can also read that you are interested in Dos and Don'ts in gay cinema. Again, I can advise you to relax and enjoy the atmosphere. Actually, similar "rules" apply in the cinema as in the sauna. As long as you remain polite and do not bother anyone, everything is actually in the green zone.

Many gay cinemas now place greater emphasis on safe sex. Therefore, nothing stands in the way of exciting, anonymous sex adventures. However, this does not mean that you necessarily have to have sex when visiting a gay cinema! On the contrary! Even an evening at the cinema without classic sexual intercourse can be extremely erotic. Among other things, you can choose to visit individual booths or make yourself comfortable in a quieter corner.

The more relaxed you are with the "project" gay cinema, the more fun you will certainly have. Of course, this also means that you can save yourself a lot of excitement in advance if you familiarize yourself a little with the respective location.

Last but not least, I would also like to tell you that you should not decide to visit a gay cinema out of some kind of peer pressure. Maybe you can get more excited about other types of cruising in general? Don't let your buddies here pressure you indirectly. Just because a lot of gay men are into sex at gay movie theaters doesn't mean you can't go against the flow a little here!

I hope you have fun...whatever you decide!

Kind regards Dr. Randy

 

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10 responses to "Attending gay movies alone?"

  1. Gay or not, it doesn't matter. Cinemas stand and fall with the owner. There are dirty ones and there are the really clean ones. There you have to actually put on the reviews of Dr. Google value, or sacrifice the 10-15€ and make the self a picture. I am very satisfied with the cinemas that I have already visited.

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  2. I also find gay cinemas too dingy and strange, I've tried them before, but they're really not my cup of tea, ?

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    1. Dirk, I don't know which cinemas you go to, but the ones I've seen and got to know so far are anything but "dingy", but apparently there are also big exceptions

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  3. So I personally have to say that in Lübeck the gay cinemas are dingy. Otherwise, it was exciting at the beginning there, but with time I have found that it is no longer my thing. Let's see after Corona there are still some.

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  4. So I am Pitt ...know Gaykino
    but I don't like to go there because they are a bit grubby and they are all out for a quickie.
    When they are done ... they are gone.
    Yes you will find there most are as singles there ...the couples find themselves from single people

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    1. Hello Pitt you are partly right about the topic but not everywhere it is as you see it Hello I have already done great things and experiences in Labyrinth and OASE AND GUAT AND GEIL WAS ALWAYS AGAIN LGG WALTER KUSS ?

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  5. Hi I'm Sandro and 26 I've never been in gay cinema and do not know how it goes there so I can also imagine that alone will be boring there but you can not know exactly because I was not there maybe someone can tell me more about it or maybe you can also times as you get to know and together in something goes would make me happy greeting Sandro

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