Who fits together?
While some homosexual couples have been happily together for decades, some relationships seem doomed from the start. But what is the actual reason for this? How can the most promising possible basis for a partnership be laid?

Many scientists believe that especially men who are very similar to each other and have, for example, the same hobbies, are a good match.

Common interests stand for a continuous exchange

Those who can no longer talk to each other and have no ambition to counteract this circumstance are usually carrying their relationship to the grave slowly but surely. Conversely, if both men are enthusiastic about the same topics, they rarely run out of things to talk about.

Whether it's a shared sport, a passion for movies or something similar: as long as there is a common basis for communication, the chances of many happy hours together are good.

Of course, however, it would also be a bit naïve to assume that a shared hobby alone would form the basis for a "... and they lived happily ever after!". Yes, it is difficult to lead a happy partnership for decades and not give up at the particularly "lows" of everyday life. Therefore, of course, it is also important that both men are willing to compromise.

Arguing properly has to be learned

No relationship can get along without quarrels. However, this is a circumstance that does not necessarily have to be considered "dramatic". On the contrary! Who respects each other, can sometimes also argue wonderfully with each other.

However, it is also particularly important not to hurt the other person and cross boundaries. When a stage has been reached where no one is afraid of being abandoned at the slightest quarrel, a lot has already been achieved.

Honesty, tolerance and responsibility

In a happy relationship, not only hobbies and passions are often shared, but also special values. For example, someone who wants to live monogamously and places a lot of value on fidelity with all its facets is unlikely to be happy - or not for very long - with a passionate swinger partner.

At the beginning of a partnership, it therefore makes sense to be honest with yourself and not to try to change the other person. Love means accepting the potential partner as he or she is. If this partner does not match your own character, it may be better to remain realistic, not to be blinded by rose-colored glasses, and instead to continue searching for a long-term relationship in which both will be 100 percent happy.

 

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One response to "Who fits together"

  1. This completely corresponds to my experiences from my previous partnership, which lasted over 20 years and unfortunately ended unhappily due to the death of my life partner.

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