Who should gay cruise together - and who rather not?
For many gays, cruising is not only part of a fulfilling sex life in the summer. Even in winter, many don't want to miss out on indulging in this kind of fun.
Those who live in a partnership are often confronted with an important question: Do I want to cruise with or without "my sweetheart"? Fearing discussions and jealousy scenarios, many gays decide to secretly meet with strange men. Often on board: a guilty conscience.
But: The option of cruising together with your partner could also be on the table. The following details could be an indication that the other person might be happy about a proposal of this kind. However, they are not a guarantee for an outright storm of enthusiasm.
Detail No. 1: Jealousy plays almost no role in the relationship
Not being jealous (or only a little) does not mean not loving the other person. Many people in this day and age are so self-confident that they have absolutely no problem with their partner having fun with a third person. When two of these people are in a relationship, there is often no arguing about sexual adventures with other men. Each knows where he belongs and is not afraid of being abandoned.
Detail No. 2: In the past already cruised together
Some time ago a wet and merry night ended in an orgy? In this case, it may be that nothing stands in the way of future erotic adventures of this kind. Here it is important to ask openly whether the partner could imagine a repetition if necessary. If there were no regrets the first time, the probability is high that the second, third and fourth time will also be enjoyed.
Detail No. 3: "Special deals" are on the cards
Not all cruising is the same! Of course, it is also possible to arrange individual deals. An absolute classic: we have sex together and the others are allowed to watch but not participate. Arrangements like this are widespread in the scene and are generally well accepted on the spot, even in the heat of the moment. Many couples find it particularly stimulating to present themselves to others in this way.
Detail No. 4: Sex and love are generally separated
Many people are wonderfully able to separate sex and love. They understand that ONS is all about passion and orgasms. Attention. However, exactly this does not mean that they can not be fundamentally jealous! If a partner starts to write with his affair also during the day and in between and also to date apart from the sex meetings, it may well be that discussions are pre-programmed. In these cases, it is often obvious for the person concerned that it is about more than just sex.
Detail No. 5: When gay cruising together, special passions can be lived out
Even those who are not exclusively into "flower sex" often get their money's worth at joint gay meetings. A particularly popular place to go in this context are relevant locations, such as gay cinemas or gay saunas. Here, not only many men meet, but also many different types of equipment. A great opportunity to dare an erotic look beyond the horizon!
Our conclusion about gay cruising
Couples who cruise together often experience a particularly diverse world of eroticism. It is particularly important that both are in agreement. No one should be persuaded to participate in orgies and the like.
Only if both are curious and have a desire for this kind of change, the joint gay cruising becomes an experience that cries out for (at least) a repeat.
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