Every man has personal preferences when it comes to choosing a suitable partner. As before, many tend to the so-called "bear types". These are tall, bearded and also otherwise quite heavily hairy.
Their appearance is - in the truest sense of the word - strong. Nothing seems to upset the bear type, he protects his loved ones and is the ideal cuddly bear. But: He can also be different. Also in bed it is guaranteed not to be boring with this kind of man.
Some people talk about a fetish when it comes to the preference for hairy men, others talk about an "individual taste in men". But why are bears actually - especially within the scene - so popular?
Reason No. 1: perfect cuddle partners
Many guys enjoy the firm and intimate embrace of a big man who offers a lot of surface area for cuddling.
Behind the seemingly rough shell often hides a loving guy who loves to cuddle at least as much as the partner. Many of these "tough guys" just need to be given the chance to live out their loving side. For this it sometimes takes a little longer time, but: it's worth it.
Reason #2: ideal protector
Who would not want to have a bear as a protector? Not least because of the stately size, many men opt for the bear guy. After all, that's exactly what the ideal "bodyguard" must look like, isn't it?
Most of the time, these gentlemen also have the rather leisurely attitude towards life of a bear. They go their way peacefully as long as they or their loved ones are not attacked. Should this be the case, the bear's protective instinct is quickly awakened and the defense mode is activated.
Reason No. 3: "real" men
Even today, many people are still guided by somewhat outdated clichés when it comes to how a man should behave and look.
The bear type comes close to the corresponding ideal image in this respect. Some would certainly say that the "Bear" type exudes the typical "Alpha" status and is accordingly dominant.
Exactly this aspect can not only impress, but also be perceived as very sexy. And this also already leads to...
Reason No. 4: passionate lovers
Despite the stocky physique, especially men who fall under the bear type are considered passionate lovers. They are not usually out to wildly penetrate the partner and function like a machine. Their sensitive side often becomes apparent during the act of love making. They often put their needs behind those of their partner and are especially eager to satisfy his desires first.
In fact, they are not satisfied until the other person has climaxed first. Some of them even surprise with their spontaneous actions and inventiveness.
Reason #5: a sexy look beyond the erotic plate
If you feel like an erotic look beyond your nose and would like to put out your feelers in the direction of BDSM, for example, sooner or later you will probably also meet a bear. The whole thing is particularly sexy when the bear's body is wrapped in lacquer and leather. Sure: everyone has different preferences here. But: At the latest now it becomes clear that the typical bar can not only cuddle, but also be very hot on the road.
However, it is a prejudice that bears would be EXCLUSIVELY in the BDSM scene on the road. Instead, they are present in just about all areas of the community.
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