These 5 topics should not come up on a first date

The first date is approaching with great strides and many ask themselves, "What should I talk about?". The range here is so wide that it is not necessary to stiffen necessarily only on the weather. But: There are definitely some topics that should not come up in connection with the first (or even the second) date.

The following examples show exactly what is meant by this.

Taboo topics for the first date

Taboo Topic No. 1: Religion

This is a sensitive topic that many people with different opinions face. Or, in other words, if the conversation develops in this direction, it is quite possible to step on the toes of someone you actually want to impress. Jokes and teasing may well be taken the wrong way here. Therefore, it is safer to leave this topic out.

Taboo topic No. 2: Salary

At some point, the phrase "How much do you earn?" is bound to come up. - but please not on the first date.

Even though this may be a question that is asked out of pure interest, there is always a little bit of consideration as to whether the dating story could be over if the salary is too low. Therefore, this is also a taboo that should be avoided in the early days of getting to know each other.

Taboo topic No. 3: Ex friends

No one wants to hear praise for their ex. At the same time, it also seems unsympathetic when the ex is always talked about. Perhaps the one or the other then also asks himself the question whether the counterpart is already over the last relationship.

After all, this certainly seems to stir up the mind. Questions like "How long has it been since your last relationship?" and "What is important to you in a relationship?" are actually considered "okay" by most.

Taboo topic No. 4: Overly serious relationship intentions

First of all, there are some men who want to talk about family planning, marriage, etc. on the first date. But: Actually, this is a minority.

Many men prefer instead to let everything go a little slower and startle when the door is opened too much. In addition, it often seems a little desperate, if virtually on the first date is tried to "arrest" the other. Accordingly, it does you good to switch down a gear.

Taboo topic No. 5: Politics

Many people react at least as sensitively here as they do to topics that revolve around religion. Of course, if you met, for example, because you work for the same party as your date, you will have found a grateful topic in politics. As a rule, however, this should not be the case. Here it is then important to slowly feel your way forward over time (and not on the first date). Otherwise, even a solid argument can arise, which ends with a "We are definitely not on the same wavelength!

Conclusion

The motto "opposites attract!" can also apply in the context of dating and, of course, two people who will eventually enter into a partnership do not have to agree 100 percent on everything. Nevertheless, the above-mentioned topics show that it usually makes sense not to jump right in.

After a few dates and within a relationship, you can get a better idea of what makes the other person tick. And then it is also possible to exchange ideas about partially completely different opposites even better.

 

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