Homosexuality in the Roman Empire

Homosexuality is not a "phenomenon" of modern times. Homosexuality has been lived out since ancient times (and probably even earlier). Therefore, same-sex love was also a topic in the Roman Empire. There were orgies and other revelries in the context of which it was perfectly "normal" to live out one's lust. Roman (and Greek) mythology alone is full of homosexual and heterosexual sex, affairs and - unfortunately - rape. According to some traditions, people were even more open-minded about homosexuality than they are today. Or, in other words, why shouldn't people be free to have sex, but their gods were? There are several stories about gods mingling with humans and sleeping with them. A look back: What did it mean to be gay in the Roman Empire? The Roman Empire found its origin with the founding of Rome in 753 BC. ...
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Domian is finally back!

Jürgen Domian was probably the best-known TV pastor in the 90s. Many people still know him today. He stands for empathy, listening and also for the one or other funny situation. The topics and people he is confronted with are previously unknown to the presenter, and yet he has an open ear for anyone who approaches him with their story. No editing, no acted scenes, just real life and its protagonists. Above all, the presenter's charming and non-judgmental manner often led to quirky stories that still have cult status today. As early as April, Jürgen Domian - who, by the way, is bisexual - is to advise his listeners and viewers again. A look back: what is actually behind Jürgen Domian's show? The youth show "Riff - der Wellenbrecher," which ran on the radio station WDR 1, became "Domian live. Initially, the concept consisted of reports and expert opinions. Only one...
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Katy Bähm wants to get married after "Celebrities under palm trees

Katy Bähm - Wedding, celebrities under palm trees and lots of support Katy Bähm was one of the participants in the Promi Big Brother container who polarized. Some fans of the format loved her for her direct manner, others were less able to deal with the drag queen's love of discussion. But: there was hardly anyone who followed the show and didn't have an opinion about her. The probability that Katy will be ignored by the media in the coming days and weeks is close to zero. Because: she is part of the current cast of the Celebrities Under Palms season and is also planning the wedding with her Francis. Reason enough to take a closer look at the drag queen's eventful life. Katy and her sweetheart: Fans follow the relationship on Instagram, among other places. There are many stars who keep their relationship a secret. Katy Bähm is not one of them. On the contrary! She regularly posts pictures of herself with her sweetheart, DJ Francis Walter. Both have been together for several years....
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Hape Kerkeling celebrates his TV comeback on RTL!

"Ich bin dann mal weg" was a bestseller by Hape Kerkeling, which brought many interested readers a little closer to the Way of St. James. After that, however, it became quiet around the otherwise so shrill and cheerful Kerkeling. Since 2014, the moderator, comedian and voice actor was no longer regularly seen on television. But that is to change in 2022. The fans are happy about it. The news surrounding Kerkeling's comeback spread like wildfire. "I'm making myself scarce because I want to make myself scarce!" ... Kerkeling declared in March 2014 in an interview with dpa. The comedian justified the decision to stop appearing so often on TV by saying that he felt himself to be too omnipresent. He therefore took a longer break. Henning Tewes, the managing director of RTL Television and co-director of TVNow, now plans to fundamentally renew the broadcast concept and further expand the program. Part of said renewal is to bring the popular...
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Spring fever at last? With these flirting tips it works out

Many singles know it: the first rays of sunshine shine through the clouds, the temperatures rise and you wonder if it's a coincidence that the "cute guy" over there looks so irresistible. Flirting is especially fun in the spring. Nevertheless, it is of course important to observe a few "basic rules" here. Among other things, these can ensure that the flirting adventure is crowned with success. Even if there is, of course, no guarantee that "saying XY" will lead to the date, it is still useful to deal a little with his tactics in advance. The following tips show how relaxed flirting can be. At the same time, they emphasize that in many cases it's not the words that matter, but rather the "overall package". Actually relaxing, isn't it? Flirting tip No. 1: a healthy self-confidence A healthy self-confidence is an effective "weapon" that has already helped many singles to the longed-for...
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U.S. military admits transgender recruits again

The Trump administration is history. And since Joe Biden became US president, a lot has changed. This became particularly clear recently with the fact that there are now new guidelines regarding trans people in the American armed forces. To put things in perspective, ex-President Trump had launched a law in 2019 that prohibited transgender people from serving in the armed forces. The said law represented a significant change in the treatment of queers. For: under Trump's predecessor, Barack Obama, these restrictions did not yet exist. Now the tide has turned again. Soon, transgender people will be allowed to serve as members of the armed forces. Changes come into force at the end of the month - and are likely to have far-reaching consequences. Among other things, the news about transsexual people being allowed to be members of the armed forces in the future caused a real storm of enthusiasm in the social networks. Therefore, among ...
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Where can I meet gay men?

Where can I meet gay men? Hello Dr. Randy, My question may sound like it is being asked by a young man. However, I am actually 46 years old and just realized my homosexuality a few weeks ago. I came out to my parents (both well over 70!) and to my circle of friends and was pleasantly surprised. Absolutely no one was shocked or anything like that. Maybe one or the other already suspected that I am gay. Anyway, I now have the problem that I would incredibly like to meet other gay men. Whether I would like to have a firm relationship, I do not know just yet. Maybe I'm just looking for a casual atmosphere? Anyway: where can I meet gay men? Since I live in the country, the whole thing is a bit more difficult than in the big city - at least I think so. LG, your Lars Dear Lars, I am very happy that your coming out off...
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Visit gay cinema alone?

Can I visit a gay cinema alone? (Tim, 22 years) Hello Dr. Randy, unfortunately I have to admit that I am currently a bit annoyed by my circle of friends. They all keep telling me how cool it would be to go to a gay cinema. Many of my buddies make a real happening out of this, so I feel strange that I have never been there. I have not really admitted that I have no experience in this. I've always held back in the conversations. But I would also have a strange feeling to join my clique. Can I actually visit a gay cinema alone? Best regards, your Tim Dear Tim, you are right. There really are a lot of gay men who frequent gay movie theaters on a regular basis. Often it's not just about the movies or the cruising, but rather the mix of "everything". Sex or gay cinemas have sometimes evolved significantly over time - at least di...
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My first time cruising

I would like to cruise for the first time. What do I have to keep in mind? (Max, 27 years) Hello Dr. Randy, I am Max and have been in a committed relationship for about two years. For a few months now, I've had the feeling that we've run out of steam, even though we love each other. That's why I asked my partner if he would like to go on a little cruising adventure. I imagine that I have sex with another man and he watches me. He seemed relatively open to the topic. Jealousy has never really been a big issue with us anyway. But now I'm wondering if the whole thing was really a good idea. Is there anything I need to be aware of when cruising? Can something "go wrong"? Kind regards Max Dear Max, first of all I want to tell you that you are indeed right. Cruising can really help to refresh a "fallen asleep" relationship again. However, this is not always the case! Sometimes it can...
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