What does he use to show that he doesn't really want to get to know anyone else?
First of all: The sooner you manage to recognize men who actually have no desire for a relationship (or further ONS), the better. After all, the sheer endless waiting for the next message or the longing for the next meeting can be very time-consuming (and nervously stressful).
And the sooner it is clear that he does not have the same feelings, the sooner it is possible to look for someone new. But first you have to ask yourself the question, How do I know that he is not interested? The problem: Many people who have feelings towards someone else do not want to admit that the other person may think differently.
The following scenarios should at least give you reason to think. If several apply, there is a high probability that it is better to look for a "Plan B".
Sign 1: He takes "forever" to write back
Only very few people are really "always" available. Even people who are very cell phone-savvy take a break now and then. But if HE always takes at least an hour or longer to respond (if there's a response at all), there's a good chance that interest isn't all that great.
Of course, there are always excuses and plausible reasons for not being able to get in touch. But even on the most stressful days, there is usually time for a quick "I'm thinking of you!
Sign #2: He keeps canceling dates
Some men have already chosen this as a kind of "hobby". They make an appointment, write the night before how much they are looking forward to it and then "unfortunately" do not make it.
If this is exactly what happens once, this is not yet a reason to become clairaudient. However, regular cancellations may indicate that he is just playing.
Sign No. 3: He keeps other options open
Nowadays, dating is not always about finding the Great Love exclusively. As long as both are honest with each other, this is not really a problem. However, it becomes critical when, on the one hand, people diligently date and, on the other hand, talk about Great Love.
In this case, it shows that he is at least not interested in a lasting partnership.
Sign No. 4: Other things are more important
Many people love to pursue their hobbies. And of course, there is absolutely nothing wrong with this. However, those who would like to get to know their date partner usually show a little commitment and flexibility when it comes to canceling the one or other "hobby appointment". In this way, it is possible to convey what is actually a beautiful message: "My life is stressful, but I'm always ready to 'fit you in'.
Sign No. 5: He speaks it out
Mentioning this sign may sound a bit exaggerated to some. But: There are actually many people who don't take a "I don't want to see you anymore." or a "Sorry, we're not right for each other." are not taken seriously. Freely according to the motto "Oh, he doesn't mean that." this probably most obvious sign is ignored.
Particularly interesting: The person who utters the dreaded words cannot actually be blamed. Because: He was or is honest.
Our conclusion on the topic: How can I tell that he is not interested?
The realization that one man has developed more feelings, but the other has not, can be sobering. And yet, at the latest, now is the time to pull the ripcord, if only for self-protection. The more the person who is not interested in a common future is persuaded to "one more date", the higher the probability that people will be hurt emotionally.
After a breakup of this kind, the next adventure is sure to be waiting soon... Or the Great Love?
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