These five tips show how to use lubricant properly
Lubricant is a wonderful invention, but how to use lubricant correctly? ... especially when it comes to the first (or subsequent) experiences with sexual practices in the anal area. For many, this "extra" is not only practical, but also necessary in order - with a certain penis size - not to injure the partner's anus. In addition, lube can also help prevent pain or uncomfortable sensations. Why lube is so important should be obvious. The anus is not capable of secreting a secretion that would facilitate the insertion of the penis. And that is exactly why it must or should be helped.
But what is the best way to use lubricant and is it actually possible to do something wrong when using it? The good news is: The use of lubricant is very simple and usually succeeds the first time. However, there are a few things to keep in mind ... especially when toys are used.
Lubricant: What anal sex fans should consider
For many, lubricant is one of the most important tools in the bedroom. Often, however, the question is still in the room, how to use lubricant properly? With a few simple tips, the application becomes even easier and all that remains is the desire for your partner. It doesn't get any better than that, does it?
Tip No. 1: Use the right amount
Especially during the first times, many wonder how much lubricant they actually need. The right amount depends on your own taste and that of your partner. Some don't like it when too much lubricant is used and others love the cool, slippery feeling on the skin.
In the beginning, it is advisable to use a little more lubricant rather than too little. Gradually it is possible to approach the right amount to spend the next sex session painless and pleasurable.
Tip No. 2: The right application area
The lubricant should be applied both to the anus and to the sex toy or body part that is to be used. The following applies to the application to the anus: First wash your hands, absorb the lubricant with your finger and then "gel". Here, the first stretching attempts can already be made by the partner penetrating first with one and then two fingers to distribute the lubricant.
Tip No. 3: The careful insertion
Lubricant is not a guarantee that the insertion of the penis or a sex toy will be painless. Therefore, the active part must be very careful to penetrate slowly and gently. This also means paying attention to the partner's signals. If he cramps up, it is time to take a break.
Attention! Too fast penetration can cause great pain, even if lubricant was applied!
Tip No. 4: Coordinate lubricant and sex toys with each other
Many wonder if lube can also be used in combination with sex toys. The answer: Mostly yes. However, care should be taken to ensure that the lubricant is water-based. If you apply a silicone-based lubricant to a silicone toy, you risk damaging the surface and the sex toy will no longer look the same after use.
Tip #5: Wash out after sex
Lubricant gel is easy to remove after use. With regard to easy cleaning, it is also worthwhile to use water-based lubricant. This is because it can easily be washed out with water. Particularly stubborn residues can of course also be removed in the shower. Maybe your partner will help you?
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