How painless anal sex works

How to prevent the pain during anal sex

Anal sex can be very erotic, but also quite a painful affair. Especially if there is a lack of suitable preparation and one wants to have too much too fast. Especially tricky: Those who associate their first anal sex experiences with pain may find it difficult to indulge in this practice again - at least passively. And that's exactly why it's so important that ideally everything goes smoothly.

Sure: Depending on the size of the "best piece", it can never be guaranteed that anal sex will be 100 percent painless.

However, there are some tips that can help improve the starting situation for everyone involved. As in many other areas, the "relaxation" factor is also crucial here.

Tips for Pleasant Anal Sex

For the sake of completeness, it should be mentioned once again at this point: The following tips are no guarantee that no pain will occur during penetration. To put it bluntly: The anus is rather not used to something making its way in. Therefore, good preparation is the be-all and end-all for sensual and pleasurable anal intercourse.

Tip No. 1: Lubricant

Lubricant should not be optional for anal intercourse, but mandatory. Because: Neither the anus nor the penis produce lubricating secretion that would make penetration easier. Therefore, lubricant should always be used to make insertion more pleasant.

The first time it is recommended to use a little more lubricant, rather than too little. Both penis and anus can be covered generously with lubricant.

Additional tip: If no lubricant should be at hand, never (!) try to work with spit! Saliva helps only for a short moment and even dries out the skin afterwards. And this is exactly what can make anal intercourse more painful).

Tip No. 2: Preparation with toys

Practice makes perfect! When the anus is used to being stretched, everything usually becomes easier and more painless on its own. Here you can also work with various sex toys before the partner penetrates. Among other things, there are love balls, anal chains or plugs.

As a basic rule, it is always best to start with one of the smallest sizes. Only then, when this can be inserted without any problems, can larger models be used if desired. Again, it is definitely a bad idea to compromise. "Permitted" are only sex toys that are also intended for this purpose. With other objects, there is a risk that they can no longer be removed or even cause an intestinal obstruction.

Tip No. 3: Allow time for foreplay

Especially for the first few times, extensive foreplay is important to many ... not only to prepare and stretch the anus, but also to get into a pleasurable mood. Increased pleasure can often mask minor pain. A rimjob or pre-stretching with the fingers, combined with a blowjob, can often help here.

Tip No. 4: The 45 degree position

The name already reveals a lot about the position. However, one partner does not (!) have to stand at a 45 degree angle in front of the other. Rather, the passive part should be in a relaxed position. A pre-stretch and sufficient lubricant are also necessary.

To implement the 45-degree position, a plug or dildo is inserted into the anus at a comfortable 45-degree angle. In this way, pleasure and stretching can usually be ideally combined.

The conclusion

It would definitely be wrong to assume that every gay man would be into passive anal sex. Especially when painful experiences have been made in the past, there may be some skepticism. However, with the above tips, the probability is high that from now on pleasure and not pain is the order of the day.

 

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