The most important rules on a sex date
"It's just sex!" - Maybe. Nevertheless, it is important - in the interest of all - to observe some principles. Otherwise, not only the ego and self-esteem, but also health may suffer.
However, the good news is of course that a sex date does not have to be stressful. Quite the opposite! If you feel like not getting tied down and enjoying your single life, you can of course do so. However, the following general conditions help to enjoy sex even better... Even if they may sound a little "stuffy" at first.
Tip #1: Be honest
Almost everyone knows this kind of man. He tells the blue of the sky, was "never in love so much in life"... And actually only wants sex. However, he only thinks the latter. But why actually? It saves all involved a lot of trouble and nerves, if from the outset with open cards is played, In today's time it is no longer a problem for many to enjoy classic sex dates. However, knowing this and claiming the opposite is not fair.(Additional tip: If you want to ensure that you are more likely to encounter like-minded people in your search for the right partner for hot hours, you should - if you are looking online - leave appropriate notes in your profile. )
Tip No. 2: Safety first
No matter whether there is only one "friendship plus" or whether the partners are changed regularly: Condoms protect very well against STIs - at least if they are used correctly. Of course, there is always a certain residual risk. Nevertheless, this is very low compared to sex without a rubber. Therefore: Even for spontaneous gay cruising adventures always have at least one condom at the start!
Tip No. 3: Listen to yourself
Having a sex affair can feel very hot. However, despite all the lust, it is of course important not to lose sight of yourself. No matter how hot a particular position or practice may sound, if you don't feel like it, you don't feel like it, and you shouldn't talk yourself into doing something you're not comfortable with. At the same time, of course, it is also important to accept the limits of your sex partner. Here, everyone draws their own limit.
Tip No. 4: Do not meet directly at home
Nowadays, many who end up with "friendship plus" sooner or later get to know each other via the Internet. At some point, the question then arises "To you or to me?". But be careful! Especially when the other person is still completely unknown, it is important to first meet in a neutral place. If you don't feel like investing a lot of money in a hotel room, you can also meet at a well-visited gay cruising point. Then, when a little time has passed in the country, there is still enough time to introduce each other to their own private bedrooms.
Tip #5: Respect is everything
Whether it's just about sex or a serious relationship, respect is also the basis for sexy togetherness. Who can not appear at the appointed time on the date, should not hesitate to tell the other exactly that. Moreover, even mere sex relationships are about give and take - both outside and in bed. Even in the context of humiliating games, which many gays(and for that matter straight men) find so attractive, you should always keep in mind what is real and what is (sex) play.