In the context of an involuntary single life, dating is essential to finding a partner for life(or for one night). Over the course of time, some unwritten rules have crept in here that are still relevant today. But how much truth is there in them? Usually not much. Instead, dating today is more individual than ever.
Who does not adhere to the following rules, is accordingly still far not a bad Dater! On the contrary! Sometimes it's even more fun to break out of the crowd, isn't it?
Five dating myths put to the test
The date is approaching with great strides and of course you want to leave a good impression. But how exactly does that work? Perhaps the first step is to say goodbye to the well-worn paths and go new ways?! The following dating myths are definitely outdated.
Myth #1: You can't kiss on the first date
There is no kiss on the first date yet! This rule is probably known to everyone. But why should it be forbidden to make out on the first date? Many feel a kiss as a very intimate moment and see it as the ultimate proof of love. Therefore, this kind of tenderness on a first date is simply too much for some people.
But if both feel secure and the urge for a kiss is there, there's really no reason not to give in to it, is there? After all, a kiss after the first date can remain in the memory as a highlight.
Myth #2: No feedback means making yourself interesting
The first date went well and accordingly the anticipation for date no. 2 is already looking for its space. But since the parting, he no longer reports?! This causes grief to many. To calm down, it is often said: "He only does that because he wants to make himself interesting.". In the first step, this may be reassuring. However, this may distract from the bitter truth. If you don't get in touch for several days, you are often really no longer interested. Of course, however, it is not possible to make sweeping statements here.
Myth #3: One must always invite the other
Who actually has to pay on a date? Many expect to be invited... And when they are disappointed, thoughts arise like "Am I not worth THAT to him?". But if the date doesn't pick up the tab, there can be several reasons. Some men simply feel, even on heterosexual dates by the way, that it's fairest to split the bill.
Myth No. 4: Three days of radio silence after a date are mandatory!
This "rule" is already very old. But: Actually, there is no sensible reason that justifies not to get in touch when you actually feel like it, is there? If he writes, then he shows interest. Is this interest reciprocal? Then a response before the expiration of the three days is of course perfectly legitimate. Why wait unnecessarily? Otherwise, "playing dead" could easily be interpreted as disinterest.
Myth #5: No compliments means no interest
Everyone likes to get compliments, however, it can happen that the date is very reserved with them at the first meeting. But this does not mean that he would not be interested.
Refraining from such messages can also only mean that he generally believes that compliments are too intrusive. Especially here it is also always a question of inner attitude.
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