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Is marriage for all finally coming to Cuba? In the meantime, many people in many countries are discussing an important topic that is burning under the nails of the community: marriage for all. Cuba is no exception in this context. Here, the vote is to be held in the fall, or more precisely in September. Among other things, there is always talk of a new family law in this context. The idea is to legalize surrogate motherhood, for example. In short, a lot is currently happening in Cuba in connection with queer rights. How the whole thing will turn out will become clear in September. The referendum on marriage for all in detail The situation for queer people in Cuba could change significantly in September 2022. Because: Then it is to be voted in a referendum on whether marriage for all, which is already lived in many countries, also comes here. To be more precise, the referendum will be about...

These 5 topics should not come up on the first date. The first date is approaching in leaps and bounds, and many are asking themselves, "What should I talk about?". The range here is so wide that it is not necessary to necessarily stiffen only on the weather. But: There are definitely some topics that should not come up in connection with the first (or even the second) date. The following examples show what exactly is meant by this. Taboo topic no. 1: Religion This is a sensitive topic that many people with different opinions face. Or, in other words, if the conversation develops in this direction, it is quite possible to step on the toes of someone you actually want to impress. Jokes and teasing may well be taken the wrong way here. Therefore, it is safer to leave this topic out. Taboo topic No. 2: The salary At some point, the phrase ...

How to make summer gay cruising adventures a little hotter. Gay cruising in summer... For many gays there is almost no erotic idea of the perfect sex experience. However, in order for the whole thing to be really fun (and as safe as possible), there are a few things to keep in mind. One thing is certain: Those who are single, enjoy sex and don't want to make any other commitments are often well advised to give gay cruising a chance. Rarely is it as much fun as in the summer to go "on the prowl" here at rest stops, in wooded areas and the like. But what exactly should be considered when it comes to enjoying sex in the open air or in gay cinemas or gay bars, for example? Tip No. 1: Arrange in advance At the latest when you have had to wait longer for a suitable counterpart, it becomes clear how sensible it is to make an appointment in advance for gay cruising. Such a "date" also makes sense in the summer. Sure: The relevant gay c...

Which are the most popular gay bars in Germany? Anyone who feels like meeting men - whether to talk or "for more" - often looks for a gay bar nearby. However, due to the large selection, it can be difficult now and then to decide on just one favorite. The following sections can help to see a little clearer here and perhaps also bring one or the other gay bar into focus, which has not yet been on your own radar. Of course, it's always especially fun to compare the different concepts of the locations. While some gay bars simply invite you to get to know the scene and its members, other locations of this kind are clearly about flirting. Which gay bar is accordingly considered "the best" is of course always dependent on personal taste. Gay Bar Location Tip No. 1: The DIVA Lounge In the middle of Göttingen have...

The 5 most beautiful proofs of love in a relationship There are countless ways to show your love to your partner. Many of them are said to be quite capable of strengthening the relationship and emotions towards each other. And anyway: who is not occasionally happy about a sweet surprise from his beloved? Many lovers know the problem: they would like to show their partner how much they love him, but now and then lack imagination and creativity. Therefore, in the end, they often fall back on flowers or chocolates. Gifts of this kind are not to be degraded at this point in any way. With each love proof it concerns a beautiful gesture. But if you want to surprise your partner with a sweet, perhaps a little more unusual proof of love, you should definitely read on. After all, there are some romantic ideas that are not only surprising, but also easy on the wallet. Surprises of this a...

At what point does jealousy actually become a problem? Jealousy can become a real problem within a relationship - in many ways. If one person affirms that he or she is not jealous in any way, the partner often feels "less desirable." The relationship can also suffer greatly from too much jealousy. If trust is repeatedly questioned, this can develop into a high potential for conflict. Many people talk about a "healthy amount" of jealousy. But what exactly is meant by this and when does jealousy become a serious problem? Some criteria can help to find out how jealous a partner is compared to the rest of society and whether the respective feelings are perhaps too much of a good thing. In general, if you tolerate your partner's jealousy for too long, you will have a hard time changing anything in the basic construct of the relationship. What is jealousy anyway? By definition, one understands...

The 5 hottest rest areas in Germany for cruising The number of gay cruising rest areas in Germany has increased more and more over time. No wonder there is a lot of interest around the question "Where is the best place to pick up guys on the highway?". In the first step, it is of course important here to deal with considerations such as "Do I want to cruise on a green area or at the restroom?" and "Who is my "target group"?". One thing is certain: many gays love to experience sexual adventures of this kind (and often outdoors). The passion then often goes so far that rest areas and parking lots are not "incidentally" but targeted. Who then still thinks of the necessary protection in the form of rubbers, can often enjoy a special kind of fun. Additional tip: Especially in the warm summer months, Germany's rest areas are the scene of extensive cruising. But if you don't feel like searching and waiting, you can find a...

So the vacation does not become a relationship test A vacation should actually be the "most wonderful time of the year". A time when couples can recharge their batteries to tackle the stressful daily routine anew after the vacations. But it's not uncommon for the time spent together to trigger a relationship crisis rather than living up to the description of "relaxing time off". But how does it actually happen that many couples get into each other's hair during their vacation and perhaps even go their separate ways afterwards? The reasons that can ultimately lead to a separation are different and often many couples of course also bring "old burdens" to the vacation destination. The good news is that there are a few tips that can help make the vacations as harmonious as possible. The more relaxed everyone involved is, the better. Tips for a relaxed vacation for two Many triggers for disputes are no longer too much of a problem if patience, calm and communicatio...

Gay penguin couple become parents Further proof that becoming parents as a same-sex couple is apparently absolutely no problem in the animal world! The two penguins, Zorro and Diego, who live in Bournemouth at the Oceanarium, are now dad and dad. Because: they have succeeded in hatching a chick. Cuddle factor? Extremely high! The sweet baby goes by the name of Ponyo and was born in mid-May. It took a little while until the news was made public. After all, before that it was time to get to know each other and enjoy the time as a threesome. But now there is a statement from the Oceanarium. The feedback on this is quite positive. Many are happy that the popular destination has just been enriched by an attraction. Oceanarium in Bournemouth makes statement That Ponyo is not "just any offspring" should be clear at the latest after reading the news. Because: The responsible persons have directly h...