After the hot phase of online dating, many people wonder whether it might be worthwhile to get to know each other in person. The question that should really be asked in this context is: Why not?
Even if it sounds strange, but: more than a bad date it can actually not become in most cases and even if not everything should run "perfectly", valuable experiences can still be collected in the context of "optimization-worthy" meetings.
There are many different reasons why it's worth thinking about dating at some point. After all, at some point - assuming mutual sympathy - it's time to move from the virtual to the "real world," isn't it?

When is it worth dating?

What details speak for a date?

Especially in the world of online dating, it is possible to meet a wide variety of characters. Not everyone gets along right away, but sometimes it's possible to talk about "love at first sight". But when is a date worthwhile at all? Is there a fixed rule?
All fans of "to do lists" can breathe a sigh of relief at this point. Because there are actually some details that show that a date with "person X" could actually be worthwhile.

Detail No. 1: Common interests

An absolute classic! If you notice when writing that there are common interests, you can be sure that a topic of conversation will also usually be found quickly on the spot. In short: It's time to get to know the other person in person.
If you can talk for hours on your cell phone or PC, you can be sure that the same wavelength will not be lost in a café or restaurant.

Detail No. 2: The same goals

Everyone associates something different with a "perfect date" - some sex, some an intense conversation. To ensure that the upcoming meeting is really worthwhile (and takes place on an honest basis), it is important to play with open cards from the outset. You should at least roughly define whether you are looking for the "man for life" or a one-night stand.

Detail No. 3: Curiosity

A curiosity that accompanies the future date partners throughout the day is actually always a sign that it is time to take the next step. Because: Thoughts that revolve around a person that you(n) have not actually met yet are actually a sign that at least a basic interest is there. However, if you are busy all day with other things (or other guys), and accordingly do not feel a greater curiosity, you should consider whether you want to invest your life time in your chat partner. Sometimes it is more honest to say "no" sincerely.

Detail No. 4: There are "always" important things to discuss

This is a point that should definitely be considered apart from common interests. Because: If you always have something to tell each other, you can often also build a relationship with "everyday potential".

Of course, it does not always have to be the profound topics. Minutes of silence" are also absolutely permitted. Anyone who does not feel uncomfortable here may have met a very special person.

Detail No. 5: Residences not too far away

Admittedly: This is a point that may sound a bit pragmatic at first. But: Of course, it is also an advantage if the places of residence of the parties involved are not too far apart. Where the personal pain threshold lies here in terms of the maximum number of kilometers, of course, always remains an individual decision.

 

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5 responses to "When is it worth dating?"

  1. A date always goes, what is there to lose and if it does not fit it is just so.

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  2. If the spark jumps over and the person also shows interest in one
    without having an ulterior motive then a lot is certainly possible.

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  3. I am open to everything if you want to get to know each other get in touch

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