Spring fever at last With these flirting tips, it works out
Many singles know it: the first rays of sunshine shine through the clouds, the temperatures rise and you wonder if it's a coincidence that the "Cute type" looks so irresistible over there.

Flirting is especially fun in the spring. Nevertheless, it is of course important to observe some "basic rules" here. Among other things, these can ensure that the flirting adventure is crowned with success. Even if there is, of course, no guarantee that "saying XY" will lead to a date, it makes sense to think a little about your tactics in advance.

The following tips show how relaxed it can be to flirt. At the same time, they emphasize that in many cases it's not the words that matter, but rather the "overall package." Actually relaxing, isn't it?

Flirting tip No. 1: a healthy self-confidence

A healthy self-confidence is an effective "weapon" that has helped many singles find the date they have longed for.

The focus here is primarily on the addition of "healthy", because: Anyone who displays TOO MUCH self-confidence quickly comes across as unappealing. On the other hand, those who are too insecure have a hard time building up a certain sexiness.

In short: it definitely can't hurt to be convinced of yourself and to carry this outward in a pleasant way, for example by an upright posture.

Flirting tip no. 2: Compliments are allowed...

but please be innovative!I've misplaced my number, can I have yours?" no longer lures anyone out of hiding. Instead, the trend in 2021 is moving in a much more individual direction.

Here, those who observe their counterpart and specifically address special characteristics, for example blue eyes or an appealing clothing style, have an advantage.

Anyone who proceeds too clumsily here will quickly slip into the "slime track" - and in the worst case will be perceived as dishonest and pushy.

Flirt tip No. 3: Body language says more than words

The body reveals a lot about a person's feelings. The advantage: singles who actually find their counterpart great can usually hide this with difficulty.

The pupils often dilate and a slight smile spreads across the face. In turn, subliminal signals are also sent if the flirt is only seen as a "means to an end". By the way, this is often the reason why the flirted person does not bite.

Flirting tip No. 4: Actions count more than words

Many men love to be pampered a little in everyday life. Compliments sound good in most cases and caress the soul. But if you manage to impress your counterpart, you usually increase your chances a little more.

In terms of successful flirting, this means noticing the "perfect situation" or waiting for it for a sufficiently long time.

Cute guy standing at the parking meter and can't find his change? If you're on your toes here (and have the necessary change handy), you can score points by offering to pick up two coffees to go at the nearby café and pay for parking with the remaining money. This usually breaks the ice quickly.

Flirt tip No. 5: Be able to accept defeat

The flirted with has no desire for further conversations? He is taken? Maybe he is not gay at all? Whatever the reason for not getting a date, it is essential to recognize at the right moment that the attempt has failed.

Of course, this is not the end of the world! On the contrary! The scene can be booked in the area of "experiences". No one should let a failed flirt spoil the complete spring.

 

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