Admittedly: After quite a few setbacks and disappointments, it can be that the confidence in online dating dwindles a little. But why is that? Actually, online dating is just like dating in real life: If you've drawn ablankor two, you usually appreciate the next lucky break even more.
The following reasons show why it is so important not to lose faith in the good in men, even after unwanted dick pics or inappropriate come-ons - and to observe the world around dating and co. sometimes with a good-natured wink.
Reason No. 1: And SUSPECT!
Who does not know it? The guy sounded so promising in the chat, maybe even on the phone... and now? In the restaurant, you simply have nothing more to say to each other. How convenient that in online dating it is usually much less complicated to say goodbye. Pushy and stubborn contemporaries can be blocked. This makes flirting just that little bit more fun!
Reason #2: The teenage feeling in love
"A new message! Oh my God!" - If you're not just looking for sex when you're online dating, but are seriously falling in love, you often feel the butterflies in your stomach. And that's exactly how it should be. Regular endorphin releases make even gloomy autumn days shine.
Reason No. 3: A large target group
There are many men who go on the Internet in search of a suitable partner. Sometimes they are looking for sex, sometimes for a relationship. What is certain, however, is that the target group is for the most part much larger than in other areas of everyday life. The Internet is big and full of exciting guys! You just have to discover them.
Reason #4: Open words
"Actually, I don't want to commit myself. I just want to f*****." - These words sometimes do not come well over the lips of even the most honest contemporaries. In chat, however, many men have far fewer problems with writing exactly what they want. Here, the so often cited anonymity of the Internet definitely has its advantages.
Reason #5: More thinking time for spontaneous answers
Anyone who is always annoyed that the right words don't come to mind at the right time should also have found the right partners in online dating and in the corresponding chats. Because: here it is quite possible to take a little more time. And since the basic mood is often more relaxed anyway than if "Mr. Right" (or "Mr. ONS") were standing directly opposite, the right answers often come as if by themselves anyway.
Conclusion
Every now and then, there are certainly incidents that make you doubt the effectiveness of online dating. However, there are also couples who met in chats and guys who find new one night stands here every weekend.
Therefore, as is often the case, it is important not to view the dating business too doggedly and to accept that the "real lucky strike" depends on many factors. With this in mind, nothing stands in the way of a much more relaxed approach. In the motto "Nothing ventured, nothing gained!Even in the "age of the Internet", there is more truth to the motto "Nothing ventured, nothing gained!
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