How to make summer gay cruising adventures a little hotter
Gay cruising in the summer... For many gays there is almost no erotic idea of the perfect sex experience. However, in order for the whole thing to be really fun (and as safe as possible), there are a few things to keep in mind.
One thing is certain: Anyone who is single, enjoys sex and does not want to make any further commitments is often well advised to give gay cruising a chance. Rarely is it as much fun as in the summer to go "on the prowl" here at rest stops, in wooded areas and the like.
But what exactly should be considered when it comes to enjoying sex outdoors or in gay cinemas or gay bars, for example?
Tip No. 1: Arrange in advance
At the latest when you had to wait longer for a suitable counterpart, it becomes clear how useful it is to arrange a gay cruising date in advance. Such a "date" also makes sense in the summer. Sure: The relevant gay cruising locations are usually better attended in the warm months anyway. Nevertheless, if you want to get there quickly and know who's waiting for you, it's a good idea to make a brief appointment in advance. This can often - quite incidentally - also increase the anticipation.
Tip No. 2: Bring rubbers
Here, the emphasis should definitely be on the "s". Many gay cruising beginners make the mistake of bringing only a condom. Often they do not yet know how versatile the possibilities are that are offered in connection with summer gay cruising activities. Therefore: If in doubt, always pack a few more condoms. These do not take up much space, for example, in the pocket, but can create the basis for the safest possible "intercourse".
Tip No. 3: Find a good hiding place
For those caught gay cruising, things can actually get uncomfortable. Sex in public constitutes an excitation of public nuisance. That's why it's even more important to never feel 100 percent safe, even in largely dark rest areas and parking lots. Of course, that's exactly what makes it so appealing in the end. Nevertheless, it is still important to exercise a little common sense and perhaps go a little deeper into the bushes. The volume should also be reduced. Especially at well-known gay cruising locations, the public order office often stops by to check on things.
Tip No. 4: Try out different locations
No gay cruising location is like the other. Therefore, it makes sense to try out new places every now and then. No matter whether indoors or outdoors: Due to the large selection, it will not be boring - especially in the cities. For example, if you've only ever been outdoors, you might enjoy a gay cinema or gay bar.
Here it is worthwhile to keep your eyes open and perhaps also inquire in the scene for insider tips. Especially with regard to gay cruising venues, "small but nice!" applies more and more often.
Tip no. 5: Inform at least one good friend about the activities in question.
As with classic blind dates, the same applies to gay cruising: the safest thing to do is to tell at least one person in your circle of acquaintances where you are cruising. Even if it is actually rather rare for incidents to occur, this is a sensible way to ensure a little more traceability.
A short message "I'm back home!" can also make you feel good. Places that are known to be frequented by homophobic troublemakers, among others, should of course be avoided.