Where can I meet gay men?
Hello Dr. Randy,
My question may sound like it is being asked by a young man. But in fact I am already 46 years old and only a few weeks ago I became clear about my homosexuality.
I came out to my parents (both well over 70!) and to my circle of friends and was pleasantly surprised. Absolutely no one was shocked or anything like that. Maybe one or the other has already suspected that I am gay.
Anyway, now I have the problem that I would incredibly like to meet other gay men. Whether I want to have a permanent relationship, I do not know just yet. Maybe I'm just looking for a casual atmosphere? Anyway: where can I meet gay men? Since I live in the country, the whole thing is a bit more difficult than in the big city - at least I think so.
LG,
your Lars
Dear Lars,
I'm very happy that your coming out obviously went so smoothly. Great! That you are now wondering if you can meet other gay men is understandable. After all, you are now at peace with yourself and want to enjoy your life (and certainly your sexuality) to the fullest. In fact, the fact that you live in a rather rural area complicates things a bit - but really only "a bit".
The Internet can usually help you in your search for gay men. Maybe there are other gays living in your town who - for various reasons - don't dare to admit their feelings?
Therefore, it is almost always worthwhile to look around in the Planet Randy chat. This way you can quickly get into conversation with others - often also with men from your region.
If you are only interested in sex in the first step, you can also inform yourself with regard to various relevant offers, such as cruising parking lots, gay cinemas and sex stores.
In places like these, it often doesn't take a lot of words to "get down to business". Honestly, though, I should also say that it may not be everyone's cup of tea to experience your very first gay sex here. It's best to ask yourself beforehand what outweighs: curiosity about sex? The desire to sleep with a steady partner? Or something else entirely?
Otherwise, in addition to chats and cruising places of various kinds, you should of course not underestimate the classic getting to know each other, for example on a date or through connections in your circle of friends. Since, as you write, you have already outed yourself to your friends anyway, maybe one or the other will come up with the idea of submitting a "matchmaking proposal" to you in the coming weeks?
Maybe you expected me to give you the ultimate recipe for your next relationship or at least the upcoming one-night stand with my answer. However, I can only list your options and give you an important tip: keep your eyes open! Mr. Right or a hot affair often come into your life when you don't expect it - no matter if you are gay or straight. However, it would be just as wrong to be too dogged in your search. Let yourself be surprised by what your new life has in store for you and enjoy it.
Love greetings
Dr. Randy
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Hello Lars,
don't panic you are not alone. I was already 50 years and had family with 2 children behind me when I realized that men interest me much more. It's like in all relationships it takes time and patience. I have not found the "right" one yet. But have found some very nice friendships.
Good luck in your search.
Open your eyes and blink!
Dear Lars,
I can also recommend Planet-Randy to you, I am just 21 years old, but I also live quite rural, in an arch-conservative area, my family and closest friends know about my inclinations and preferences. But still it is and remains difficult to make contacts, or to get to know someone.
I met my sweetheart on Planet-Randy, unfortunately we couldn't meet in person yet (shit Corona). But we are in constant contact on Planet-Randy, and are looking forward to our first meeting.
I wish you much, much luck for your, or "your" future!
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